Guy help.

yep, moving on is the only remedy.

you will deal with the same bullshit over and over it is a fact. i've been dealing with the same bull shit from relationships for years and it doesnt seem to change. only thing you can do is move onto the next when you're ready and hope for the best.
 
Well.. he just talked to me, and hes like ... i dont mean what i said last night. So i guess this is good news, for now?
 
guys fear the rejection just as much as girls do, but society tells us that we're the ones that HAVE to do the asking out. If you like a guy and he either doesn't know it or isn't man enough to ask you out him self then you need to "man" up and do it yourself. personally, i would love to have a girl do that. just my two cents.
 
don't get with him.. It'll ruin your friendship when the relationship ends. then you dont get to be with him at all. just acceot him as a clse guy friend.
 
mmkay, well here's a new update: I hate boys.

He got back with his ex-girlfriend last night apparently.. and didn't tell me. I saw it in his profile on aim.. cool, huh?
 
^^Maybe act pleased for him and support him. He'll appreciate it and it will be good for the friendship. Then he'll know you're there for him and who knows what that could turn into in the future.
 
yeah but the thing is, he tells me he wants to date me and everything and then out of no where hes back with her. Of course im gonna act supportive i don't have a choice it's just frustrating.
 
heres my two cents, when girls like me and start making moves, sometimes its like a turnoff (sometimes its the hottest thing a girl can do) but in the turn off case, for some reason I just get disinterested, its like i already got this girl I;m gona go try and get another, but then as soon as she moves on and hooks up with another guy i get mad jealous and want to hook up with her, if that guy is anything like me, and i am assuming he is, seeing as i'm 16, then i would try hooking up with another guy randomly (maybe not you style cuz it might seem slutty) and make sure he hears about it
 
stop acting like you're 12 and tell him how you feel, or you could touch his penis that usually works
 
hes with amanda :P and so yeah.. new update: hes not going out with her, he was trying to make her feel better, but it deffinately seemed like it... so ahh idk. I got a text from him at work that said i love you more than you love me.. GAY. im like so confused about him, i dont know if he's worth all this work and trouble.
 
there will always be headaches and stress, just to a different degree when you actually have the guy you want.

you've gotta take it one day at a time and keep an open mind for other boys to come your way. yeppers.
 
^as I read all this I wondered did u even talk to him in real? Coz u're taking conclusion based on profiles on AIM. Just talk to him and say how u feel. But dont act like u all want him and stuff uk
 
well i assumed it, it was very suggestive and everyone asked him about it i guess, and on his myspace he put up a picture of her and it said, i love .. her name. And i didnt get a chance to talk to him before i went to work, but he knows how i feel and i have talked to him.. im planning on seeing him tomorrow hopefully, so we will see how this goes.

But thanks guys.
 
"your hearing stuff he says" could be complete bullshit rumours so unless its straight outta his mouth dont listen to it
 
He shouldn't mess you about. If he says that he likes you again and wants to go out, you could try being straight with him and say that you're confused and he has to be clear with you on everything.
 
you have to talk to him. either ask him in person or on the phone or the bullshit will continue. and if u get denied or break up after a relationship u have to make an effort to stay friends. it actually works if u try hard enough. just talk to him. or u can fuck the shit out of him like everyone else says, and will see which one works. id prolly want to just talk to him though.
 
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