Communism is not "the exact same thing." I'm not promoting total equality, common ownership, doing away with currency, gini coefficient of zero etc. I'm promoting a system that reduces our inequality by 10-20 gini points, getting us closer to some of the developed countries around the world that enjoy a much better quality of life than we do.
I agree with you, the question is HOW do we reduce inequality as fairly as possible. You're right, no one wants to feel like they're getting hounded to give up their wealth for undeserving causes. I was simply stating that if I were to choose a side on the basis of being cautious, I would choose to bolster our social safety net. The fact remains, that the vast majority of people receiving assistance from social programs are working their asses off, paycheck to paycheck, and simply need that last little bit of help to make ends meet every night at the dinner table. For gosh sakes, over 50% of people receiving food stamps are children, I'm not about to let that kind of assistance dry up just to make sure that one rich dude doesn't get his jimmies rustled.