dont go for the long kiss, they get really sloppy. Go for short, but take little breaks between them to look in her eyes, dont attack her tongue, slowly tease it with ure own, getting more and more intense, then stop, look in her eyes again. Slowly run ure palm down her back or side, make sure ure fingers are totally relaxed, as ure just spreading warmth, and not groping, yet.
It really depends on the chik tho. Some of mine really liked when i nibbled on their lips, a few HATED it.
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