Girls, please read this with an open mind

ErikT

ErikT

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We would be much better off if you didnt play games with peoples heads and were always true, honest and more importantly, just yourself at all times. I dont want this idea to get skewed by people on here, so just take it like that. Thanks, and by the way, I love women.
 
oh ya, what am i thinking, i forgot this was newschoolers, ill save the intelligent, deep thoughts for real life.
 
they say the same things about us, they arent trying to play mind games, but they do because they thiink differntly that us
 
true, i was thinkin today about how differnet EVERYONE really is. thats just a way of life. no one sees the same things you do, and if they do its in a completely different way. everyones mind is different, and works different. people are so different.

different haha
 
guys deffinately play games too, so not all girls are the same. this is what sucks about guys who are good liars, you cant tell if they really like you or they just wanna get in your pants. all guys have game plans therefore you play games too.
 
alot of times girls play games cuz they don't want to end up getting hurt, plus, the only reason girls aren't themselves is cuz they're trying to impress the guy.

i mean it would be awesome if everyone could just be themselves and not play any games, but no one is doing it on purpose to confuse the other person, they just kinda do it.
 
you can also make the very same thread with the same posts, just replace "girls" by "boys" and it fits too.

girls? please! never change! i love you so much like taht. then when you meet a stupid girl, just go find another one
 
i just think girls have a tendency to over analyze situations and think that there is more to everything than they know..im not saying i dont do it, but yea..
 
yeah ive seen guys play games to.......why the fuck does this even happen?........my second girlfriend was like that, it took me a week to relise/discover the real her, and then i broke up with her. i dont have time for that kind of shit.
 
Let me add to this guys should act the same too. A guy could be the coolest kid to hang out with, then a girl comes in and he acts like a dick or differently to try to get her. Fuck that, that pisses me off more than girls playing games because it is expected for a girl to play games.
 
I really like you as a person and you have a great personality and are just amazing, and I lo- pffft.... HAHAHAHHAHAHA I'm sorry I couldn't keep that up.
 
Both men and women play head games.

BUT, girls start to do it first. And in order to not be totaly fucked, (take it whatever way you want) guys then have to start.

So what it comes down to is who can play the best (girls allways start, so they are allready ahead), and like with any other games some are good and others are bad (me).
 
whoa, good analysis, Guys don't generally play mind games in the same sense girls do, we just lie a shitload. it is kind of unfortunate for the bad liars that the best liars get the best girls, i nthe short term anyways.

I found that in my younger days, the guys were wlays being manipulated and used and what not by the girls. As I've gotten older ,I've found that it is guys who seem to be becoming more like that. Using, playing, lying to, and being general bad people towards girls. I think it's because girls have gotten past their player years while guys are just entering the prime of theres. When all your instincts are saying "impregnate as many girls as possible", I guess it is sometimes hard to restrain yourself.
 
ok i am going to let all the girls of ns in on a little secret if u are between the ages of 16 and 22,25 all a guy wants is to get in your pants dont expect anything more than that. if you do ur gonna get "hurt" but remember u did it to ur self by being so naive.
 
god damn i'm glad i dont have girl problems (yet)...last night was off the hook, annnnd it was on my 'rents bed hahaha (no sex, i'm 15)
 
See, that's not even true, but it might as well be, because it's still the best policy to use. Seems to me it's best to go with hasty generalizations that might not be true of everyone, but are true of most. Firm rules = firm ground, so you always know where you stand. Makes everything far less confusing.
 
my cat Mittens and I will play games too. Sometimes I will run up the stairs really fast and he will chase me and when I get to the top I will suddenly stop and he will crash into my legs ahaha good times.
 
word~~ i can never tell if a guy just wants to get in my pants or what... if yall stop playin games wit us we won't have to play games with you

but i still love ya
 
Girls think to hard. Men are naturally good liars, but we don't always lie. Guys are pretty open, and just speak their mind.
 
Here's my take on mind games:

If you play mind games, the guy that actually likes / liked you will leave because he will think you are messed up and won't want to deal with that in the long term. The guy that wants in your pants will stick with it because he doesn't plan on having to put up with you for too long.
 
i'm always myself. yep. no changes. that's probably why most guys are turned off by me, cause i'm goofy and don't pretend to be soemone else just to impress you. i honestly don't think you shuold be complaining when a girl tries to impress you. seriously. if you ever meet me, youll never take girls mind games for granted ever again

yep, no mind games from sasha
 
Its the way of life ladies and gentlemen. We all do it, no matter of what you think, you've done it to a girl, or vice versa to a guy. Mind games are there to protect us from what we can't realize...girls do over-use them in our eyes, because we have one set idiea in concrete and there still analyzing the situation in theres. Its just the way of life, it runs both ways though, that's the most difficult part of this issue...we're just as guilty as the other.
 
I would like you to assume all guys would like to get in your pants. Then, if they don't,(assuming you don't want them to)you will be happy. And if you do, then you can invite them to and you will be happy as well.
 
My girlfriend loves to play the game where she breaks up with me just to see how I react, then comes back to me. All just for fun. Sometimes she will just listen to a song, Mariah carey, shake it off, and decide that its time to shake me off. yah im getting played. but i love it.
 
Jesus I am so with you on that. We should form some sort of support group. I swear, PMS, bad mood, doesn't matter what, I'm 6 inches from getting dropped. Fucking flighty women.
 
I've got one of those. My battle cry against pms is "dont bleed on my parade" then she usually lays off cuz she knows I'm right.
 
uh dude go buy a book called a "diary" and write you pussy thoughts in there. then you can come back to it in a few years and see how incredibly gay you are
 
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