Girlfriend situation ns i need your help

SkiEastCoast

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Quick sum up

so i have known this girl since i was maybe 5. i just started to "go out with her" i mean we see each other alot most likely 4-5 times a week. the problem is we have been going out since like early sept. it seems to me that she doesnt like any "sexual" acts so she prude haha. i like hanging out with her, shes decent looking. what should i do should i bag the relationship because its hard to go from one relationship were there is sex and go to another relationship were there is nothing at all but alittle kissing here and there. i mean im 18 in 2 months thats the peak for the males sex life gotta strike while the iron is hot. Or should i huck it out a few more weeks see if anything better goes on?

any advice is great
 
join the ladies men cult.

but you should get into a lengthy make-out session, and just slide your hand down her pants and slip her a finger or two.

it should turn her on, and lead to bigger and better things.

good luck
 
sounds like you need to make sure there are other concrete options before you bag it. and by concrete, I mean concrete.if you are looking for some action, there is nothing more attractive to girls than a guy with a gf. use it to your advantage.
 
Well then stick it out and be a little more... assertive. Or just tell her that you need sex now!

Haha, she is probably just shy.. make the first move.
 
Sssex...the word most guys get hung over on...If she wants to she will, if not you'll never get to her.

Females aare the greatest threat to mankind, ccan't be with them yet you can't be without them
 
oh well, it was worth a shot.

good luck bro, it may come eventually.

i'm glad my girl isnt prude like yours is. haha
 
try talking to her rather then waiting till she just gives in? if you keep that up and theres a reson she really doesint want to have sex that has nothing to do with who its going to be with, like religion or reaching an age, then she might get around to ending it befor you do.

just talk to her, if you like her and shes an awesome girl then suck it up princes
 
God damn dude.. fucking slow your horny ass down. You're not 18 yet... so i'm going to assume she isnt either... shes probably just not ready for it I guess.

and believe me.. that whole 18 being a male's peak? load of crap... you'll still be able to have sex the rest of your life.. not like your dick is going to fall off.

If the girl isnt feelin it, fucking let go man. she obviously is more interested in growing with you emotionally at this time. Work the relationship, get to know her (and I mean KNOW her) and then maybe.. after a while she will grow to trust you.

Dont worry. shit will work. She seems like a pretty cool chick... I guess...?

and if shes being a prude now, just wait till you guys DO have sex a few times... she might just surprise you.
 
"i mean im 18 in 2 months thats the peak for the males sex life gotta strike while the iron is hot."

haha bro, where did you read that? you've only just begun trust that....
 
you have been going out for 1 and a half months? take it easy man, the less you think about sex, the better off you will be, and the more likely it will be to happen.
 
whoa. wtf.

its one thing for her to not want to have sex, cause maybe she's a virgin and wants to wait for whatever reason. But..i mean if you're boyfriend and girlfriend you'd think she'd let you slip your hand down her pants. maybe she's unshaven and is embarassed. Or maybe she's just really inexperienced, and she's really nervous, and she figures nothing can go wrong if she just never lets it happen.

add alcohol and stir.
 
did you really just say you'll "huck it out"???? dood, you are so hardcore! you are definitely a tool. and after reading the following responses i think i've come to the conclusion that a lot of you are just a bunch of tools. dood, she doesn't wanna have sex with the kid so just keep trying to touch her. how damn annoying can you be? get over it. if she doesn't want to and your so damn horny then find some skanky girl to give it up to your grubby ass. liqour her up? ya, you should like totally just like get her drunk and do her even though SHE DOESN'T WANT TO. rape? you assclowns. maybe there's a chance that she just doesn't want to have sex with you. i mean it may be a long shot cause i'm sure you are a studmuffin, but maybe she just doesn't. clows.
 
im pretty sure if alcohol was mentioned, it was suggested to be used as a tool to make her less nervous/feel at ease. I don't think that anyone on this site actually condones date rape.
 
*cough* *cough*

ahem...

Just shove your fist up her asshole, girls think that's really romantic.
 
she's not nervous. SHE DOESN'T WANT TO. you may not condone rape but what would you call constant unwanted advances and never-ending pressure to give it up until she's pressured into it. you're right, if she finally gives in and has sex it won't be cause she felt constant pressure by him overstepping her boundaries, it will be cause she suddenly decided "WAIT! I FORGOT!!! I ACTUALLY DO WANNA HAVE SEX WITH YOU!!!" i think you're right. since when did feeling a girl up when she doesn't want you to become ok? get a grip. or get a magazine or something you horny bastard.
 
Follow these instructions carefully! 1. Take her to the movies..wear something that looks fly maybe something that the hoff would wear. 2. Let her chose a chick flick something romantic 3. Get a bucket of popcorn. 4. When she goes to the bathroom take the box cuter you will have in your pocket and cut out a hole enough for you to insert your cock in. 5. Conceal with popcorn..you want to surprise her. 6. She comes back and reaches for some popcorn only to find a surpise. 7. Your problem solved.

ps. dont get melted butter it may cause burns!
 
Has anyone mentioned how old she is, i bet that's your problem. But im gonna agree just fist her asshole. they love it.
 
give her a bunch of vodka. make sure she gets reallllyyyy drunk. then start kissing her. but make sure u leik do it all nice and sexy. and then put ur hand near her cootch. if she rejects u throw her out of ur house and call her a drunk and find another girl. one that will slut it up
 
to be completly honest, just get drunk togeather....trust me, things will then work out
 
good advice right here man. there is no need to rush her into anything.

and as far as you saying you are in your sexual prime at 18....lol
 
duh? please, tell me how you knew.

and shut the fuck up, because im sure you really know people on this site. i would say that she knows more about what the girl is thinking than you, being she is a girl.
 
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