Girlfriend problems

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Wolfpackyo

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Hi guys. So as you can tell im having girlfriend problems. We have been girlfriend/boyfriend for exactly 3 years but for the past week she has slowly stopped talking to me and we have slowly stopped hanging out all because of these two fucking douchebags. We were hanging out at the park one day and these queers come up to us and say "why are you hanging out with this loser" so I have a few words for them and beat one of them up and the other runs off. The next day I see on fb these guys add her. So I talk to her and im like "why did you add these guys" and she said "I dont know just felt like it" and ever since she has been talking to them and they have been totally kissing her ass. This has been really hurting my feelings and I dont know what to do anymore. What do I do newschoolers? I really love this girl.
 
Be yourself and stay confident through the whole situation. To be totally honest confronting her or the guys will make the situation worse, and trying to cling on to her or control who she talks to will also not end well, even though I'm sure that's the first thing you'd want to do. You can't control how people feel, so don't try, just stay above it all and do cool shit to keep confident and prevent obsessing over it.

To be completely real with you though, from how you wrote it your girlfriend sounds pretty immature. Personally I've been dating a girl for three years as well, and if she acted like yours after that situation that'd be a bit of a red flag for me.
 
Your girl doesn't think they're queers. In fact, she took one of their loads on her chest this morning. It happens, move on.
 
13046472:lotsofsnow said:
Be yourself and stay confident through the whole situation. To be totally honest confronting her or the guys will make the situation worse, and trying to cling on to her or control who she talks to will also not end well, even though I'm sure that's the first thing you'd want to do. You can't control how people feel, so don't try, just stay above it all and do cool shit to keep confident and prevent obsessing over it.

To be completely real with you though, from how you wrote it your girlfriend sounds pretty immature. Personally I've been dating a girl for three years as well, and if she acted like yours after that situation that'd be a bit of a red flag for me.
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This. Trying to control a girl when it comes to that is bad news, she's going to do what she wants to do. The more you try to control the harder she's going to push against you.

13046514:louie.mirags said:
Your girl doesn't think they're queers. In fact, she took one of their loads on her chest this morning. It happens, move on.
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Also sadly this.
 
like others have said, she is immature and a bitch. The best thing you can do is to try to tell her how you feel about it, and see how she reacts. If she is immature and doesn't care about it, then the only thing you can do is move on. But it sounds like for your feelings the best thing to do, is to move on anyway. If she is immature enough to do it once, then she will probably do it again. You live and you learn OP, and people will change.

Also another thing that I learned from my father is that you will usually get a second chance with any girl(after breaking up), but its you're decision to get back together or not. Sometimes it can seem to be a good idea, but it could just bring back the pain you had from before.

Most importantly OP, just stay strong. People can suck and you can't do anything about it, and you just have to deal with it sometimes.
 
your woman is obviously looking to get out because of her attention disorder, maybe shes just looking for something new, and from the sounds of it, its time for you to drop her ass and get out there cock flailing. +k sorry for your troubles
 
ahhh highschool.

Break up with her before it happens naturally. Who knows, maybe you'll get some ex-sex when she's dating some other querf a month from now.
 
The more you try to get her back the quicker it will push her away, so give her some space and do your own thing for a while. I know it sounds impossible to do, but trust me, it's the best thing you can do if you want to get her back. Since you've been dating for 3 years, these "new" guys are more exciting than you right now. You can't force a girl to have feelings for you, and they're going to do whatever they want. If you want her back, just let it go for a while and then reach out to her in a couple weeks. Good luck!
 
since it really sounds like your having some problems, i will give you some of my wonder advice. i don't usually do this but i am feeling very giving today.what you first have to do is confront her about your current feelings. dump everything out there so she knows exactly how you feel. this will show her that you really care and that nothing else is as important as her. once you have told her how you felt, listen to how she feels. this will show that she is number one no matter what. now that everything is on the table, take her out for dinner. make a reservation and go dine. put on some slow music and don't say much in the car. it will make it seem like you are doing a lot of thinking. when you get to the restaurant, sit at a booth if they have it. this will make the entire setting more comfortable.before you have the chance to order anything, say you have to leave right away. drive the two of you back to your house. drive fast and even run one or two reds. when you get to your house, run to your room and leave her behind. when she comes into the room, she will find you naked and crying on the bed (you won't be crying just faking) when she says something, stand up quickly. say something like babe we need this time together. initiate a hug. when she reaches her arms out, turn her around and fuck her right in the ass
 
13046623:theabortionator said:
If you havin girl problems I feel feel bad for you son I got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one.
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I heard you whined a bit when you found out your wife used to double fist dudes on the reg.
 
You've been dating a girl for 3 years and you cant talk to her about your relationship? are you fucking 15 or something? Sack up and confront her, she clearly doesn't take your relationship seriously and its probably again cause you're how old?
 
13046846:pussyfooter said:
You've been dating a girl for 3 years and you cant talk to her about your relationship? are you fucking 15 or something? Sack up and confront her, she clearly doesn't take your relationship seriously and its probably again cause you're how old?
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this.
 
13046846:pussyfooter said:
You've been dating a girl for 3 years and you cant talk to her about your relationship? are you fucking 15 or something? Sack up and confront her, she clearly doesn't take your relationship seriously and its probably again cause you're how old?
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There is no doubt on my mind he is not older than 15..
 
13046944:zzzskizzz said:
90% of you on NS are too young to date.
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Speak for yourself. Me and my girl have been going steady since recess back in may. It's tough keeping our relationship going in summer without seeing each other before school, recess lunch and after school.

Sometimes we run into each other at the beach in town and talk though. At the fair on saturday we're going to hang out and get matching henna tattoos.

IF this isn't true love idk what is
 
13046944:zzzskizzz said:
90% of you on NS are too young to date.
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The "all of ns is 12" statement is just not true the majority of members are over the age of 15 and something like 50% are 18 or older and less than 10% are under 13 or something like that.
 
Girls will do what they want when they want. It may hurt but if she's not talking to you don't make the effort to talk to her or just dump her. It sounds like it's over man. Sorry to say it.
 
13046846:pussyfooter said:
You've been dating a girl for 3 years and you cant talk to her about your relationship? are you fucking 15 or something? Sack up and confront her, she clearly doesn't take your relationship seriously and its probably again cause you're how old?
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I really shouldn't be doing this but I'm feeling ballsy. You see, Evan, instead of you helping the kid out when he obviously is having some issues in his life, you bash him and call him 15 as if age really matters. He's probably tried talking to her but she won't listen. It's post like this that make almost everyone on NS think you're a fucking dick.
 
13047030:mmccarthy14 said:
I really shouldn't be doing this but I'm feeling ballsy. You see, Evan, instead of you helping the kid out when he obviously is having some issues in his life, you bash him and call him 15 as if age really matters. He's probably tried talking to her but she won't listen. It's post like this that make almost everyone on NS think you're a fucking dick.
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First of all, OP is a troll 95%

and second of all, if this kid has really been dating this girl for 3 years, he needs to stop being a pussy. like his girlfriend of 3 years stops talking to him? wtf and then he comes to ns to ask about it?

Im legit curious how old he is (hard to tell, since theses "queers" asked his gf why she was hanging out with a loser, sounds like a 15 year old) because if hes over the age of 18 he needs to get the fuck off the internet and do something about it, assume he knows where she lives, her normal work schedule. but im guessing hes young just because of the situation.

Age does matter when it comes to a relationship and the maturity of the people in the relationship. No girl over 18 in a 3 year relationship would just stop talking to her serious boyfriend then add some guy on fb that this dude just beat up?

The more I talk about this the more I'm sure this is a troll post.
 
13047043:pussyfooter said:
First of all, OP is a troll 95%

and second of all, if this kid has really been dating this girl for 3 years, he needs to stop being a pussy. like his girlfriend of 3 years stops talking to him? wtf and then he comes to ns to ask about it?

Im legit curious how old he is (hard to tell, since theses "queers" asked his gf why she was hanging out with a loser, sounds like a 15 year old) because if hes over the age of 18 he needs to get the fuck off the internet and do something about it, assume he knows where she lives, her normal work schedule. but im guessing hes young just because of the situation.

Age does matter when it comes to a relationship and the maturity of the people in the relationship. No girl over 18 in a 3 year relationship would just stop talking to her serious boyfriend then add some guy on fb that this dude just beat up?

The more I talk about this the more I'm sure this is a troll post.
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I'm 18 and I know plenty of skanks who i graduated with who would do something completely like this. Girls aren't what they used to be when you were in high school. Shit has changed. Even if OP is young you shouldn't bash him for it. And if it is a troll post, he did a damn good job because a lot of people believe him.
 
13047048:mmccarthy14 said:
I'm 18 and I know plenty of skanks who i graduated with who would do something completely like this. Girls aren't what they used to be when you were in high school. Shit has changed. Even if OP is young you shouldn't bash him for it. And if it is a troll post, he did a damn good job because a lot of people believe him.
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thats the point dude, this kid is 18 or younger because no mature girl would do something like that. were agreeing here.
 
13047065:pussyfooter said:
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thats the point dude, this kid is 18 or younger because no mature girl would do something like that. were agreeing here.
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I consider 18 an adult or on their way to becoming an adult. You said he was 15. The only thing I'm really agreeing with you on is the kids a pussy and going about this the wrong way. But still, kid needs help. No need to be a dick to him right off the bat.
 
13047072:mmccarthy14 said:
I consider 18 an adult or on their way to becoming an adult. You said he was 15. The only thing I'm really agreeing with you on is the kids a pussy and going about this the wrong way. But still, kid needs help. No need to be a dick to him right off the bat.
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I disagree, coming from someone who is 25 and actually pays for everything on my own etc, I was a complete dumbass when I was 18.

That being said, I'm a dick, sorry I hurt your feelings? OP hasn't even responded, probably because hes a troll. If OP was a personal friend I obviously wouldn't be a dick, stop comparing NS to real life.

**This post was edited on Jun 30th 2014 at 7:16:14pm
 
13047077:pussyfooter said:
I disagree, coming from someone who is 25 and actually pays for everything on my own etc, I was a complete dumbass when I was 18.

That being said, I'm a dick, sorry I hurt your feelings? OP hasn't even responded, probably because hes a troll. If OP was a personal friend I obviously wouldn't be a dick, stop comparing NS to real life.

**This post was edited on Jun 30th 2014 at 7:16:14pm
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NS technically is real life? I mean everything your posting right now is coming straight from your mind and since you're getting pretty worked up it seems like you're not trolling me so how is what you're saying not directly related to how you act in real life? Are you saying that you're a dick to people who need help who you aren't personal friends with? My feelings aren't hurt. I just think you should start acting more like a red name and less like a normal member. You have that color for a reason. Fucking show it besides banning people for saying words you don't like. /rant
 
13047085:mmccarthy14 said:
NS technically is real life? I mean everything your posting right now is coming straight from your mind and since you're getting pretty worked up it seems like you're not trolling me so how is what you're saying not directly related to how you act in real life? Are you saying that you're a dick to people who need help who you aren't personal friends with? My feelings aren't hurt. I just think you should start acting more like a red name and less like a normal member. You have that color for a reason. Fucking show it besides banning people for saying words you don't like. /rant
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Ahh the real reason for the anger emerges.

I just follow the rules, I don't make them. If you want to have the freedom to use homophobic slurs, you should go somewhere else.

You don't have any right to tell me how to act regardless of my name color, whats next are you gonna get all mad cause an orange name tells someone to fuck off? you don't seem to have a grasp on what NS is and how it works either, seeing as you joined 6 months ago. I simply told this kid to sack up and you're the one getting all pissy because you have some personal vendetta against me.
 
Sounds like your girlfriend is:

a.) a bitch

b.) about to get double teamed

You should probably do something about this.
 
you say bye hoe and then when she realizes she wants you back you pee in her butt and say bye hoe again. therefore you get more sex without the drama of what sounds like a bitch.
 
13046846:pussyfooter said:
You've been dating a girl for 3 years and you cant talk to her about your relationship? are you fucking 15 or something? Sack up and confront her, she clearly doesn't take your relationship seriously and its probably again cause you're how old?
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thought the exact same thing, 3 years and you can't talk about a little problem like this?
 
13048966:Gn4rwh4ler said:
thought the exact same thing, 3 years and you can't talk about a little problem like this?
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I'm not sure how old you are, but do you remember being 15? That shit was awkward as fuck.
 
13047020:pussyfooter said:
The "all of ns is 12" statement is just not true the majority of members are over the age of 15 and something like 50% are 18 or older and less than 10% are under 13 or something like that.
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18 is still way too young to date you're not meeting your wife your freshman year of college. Inb4 some dumbass said their grandparents got married in high school not knowing the diffrence.
 
my bitch started not respecting me and not taking me serious after 4 years. I'm no bitch. she came home one night and found her shit in the yard. kicked that cunt out of my house. best choice ever, iv been slaying ass ever since. /claim
 
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