Girlfriend problems what should i do

TheDers

TheDers

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So my girlfriend and i got in a fight last night about the same thing we fought about two weeks ago and I'm really close to breaking up with her. She calls me selfish, ungrateful, and that i dont give a shit. All this is very untrue and everyone who knows me can agree. She is really emotionally unstable and its hard to deal with. What should i do? girls input would be good too.
 
so i just had the same problem. my girlfriend said i was selfish and i didnt care. she always cried and stuff. i broke up with her and my life is 1000% better.
 
The proof is in the pudding. End it. And end it now. Plus avoid the trap/temptations of getting back together in the near future. If it wasn't meant to be the first time, it eventually won't work out the second time around (despite what she and/or you say to one another). There's nothing worse than emotionally unstable gf anyway. There's plenty of fish in the sea (cliche, i know, but its true). just my 2 cents.
 
i would just dump her. who wants an emotionally unstable girlfriend?

although I'm probably a very bad person to take advice from.
 
So, I had this same problem, and instead of saying "what the fuck do I need this for?" and breaking up with her, like I should have, I tried to change in to a better, less "selfish" and more "caring" person.

See, the problem for me was that I had a super big crush on this girl from way before we started dating. I even liked her when I was with the girlfriend I had before, and part of that break up was because I wanted to be with this new girl.

So, when I found out she liked me I was super stoked, but also really nervous because I felt like this girl was way out of my league. I almost felt like I was somehow cheating the system and that I was going to be exposed as a fake, someone who really had no business being with this girl.

Than, she turned out to be fucking demanding as shit, constantly critical of me, all my friends, my hobbies (yes, including skiing), and basically everything I did or said. All her friends were like "get away she's all pretty and appealing on the outside but she's nutso), but I didn't cause I felt like "how can I break up with a girl that is like a 10."

Anyway I tried to be what she wanted but nothing was ever good enough, until I lost my job, got kicked out of school, and lost half my friends, and than, eventually, her.

So yeah. Break up with her.
 
get out. if she says that and you k.ow its not true then your never gonna please her and she'll pound it into you untill you believe it yourself
 
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The best way to prove her wrong and show you really do care and save your relationship is to take a dump on her chest. It'll change everything, if that doesnt work dump her.
 
My girlfriend is kind of emotional but its just cuz she over reacts sometimes. Whenever something happens we sort it out and move being happy again. Shes never really called me out as being selfish or anything but I guess thats cuz im not. So if shes treating you like shit, treat her like shit until she breaks up with you or break up with her. Treat others as you wish they treat you man, tis what I live by.
 
Okay heres what you do, befriend Jay-Z join him in his illuminati clan, and have 99 problems, but a bitch not being one!
 
I'm sorry to break it to you, but girls will be girls. I'm guilty of the same thing sometimes. I always regret things I say when I fight with my boyfriend... I'm so emotional too. Only you know what to do--NS can't tell you the answer. If you love her and think she is worth dealing with, then do not let her go. It wasn't until I came to college and was away from my boyfriend for extended periods of time that I was so emotionally unstable. I don't know how he deals with me sometimes, but I appreciate it. Being in a relationship takes a lot of work... for most people that is. All you can do is express the love you have for her and hope for the best.
 
you're the only one who really knows if you're treating her fairly or not. that being said, if she's immature and not emotionally ready to handle a relationship, get out before shit really hits the fan. especially if you've already done all you can to try and work it out. find someone who appreciates you.
 
i left schol with a 3.8

I partied 6 days a wwek and slept atleast 6 hrs a night

this diagram is not a fact
 
From what it sounds like, theres no point in staying with er if he cant see your own true colours. Unless the sex is toooooo good.... dump her.

 
If you are unhappy and you keep fighting over the same thing, I would say end it. You don't want to get stuck in a bad relationship for way longer then it should have lasted, where you are trying to fix things that, no matter how hard you try, just can't be fixed. People have to want to improve themselves, and if she's making you miserable then it's best to break up and give yourself the opportunity to find someone that will make you happy and sees you for who you are.
 
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