Girl trouble..

SkiCrzy

SkiCrzy

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io was just thinking, there should be a sepreate forum for this, becuase i see atleast two fo these a week on here...anyway..

so one of my guy friends is going out with a girl who is also one of my friends. we will call the girl "jen" and the guy "bob". so latley when i have seen bob and jen together jen hasnt seemed to thrilled to be with him, kinda of looking around and staring off in to the distance when hes talking to her. before bob and jen started going out i knew that jen had a thing for me but i didnt think much of it. and about a week ago in my 6th hour, which they are both in with me, we had to do this partner project and you could pick who ever you wanted. well jen picked me right away and this pissed of bob because he thought they would have been each others partners. well she starts telling me all of these secrets about him and stuff and i really dont want to know but i listen anyways. and sicne then she has really been flurting with me, like laughing at stupid things and shit like that. well today she broke up with him becuase she said that she wanted a "break" and he said either you still go out with me or we r done, so there done. now im pretty sure that shes going to start asking me out which i really dont want. bob will get pissed and jen is more of a friend and i have my eye on some one else........soooo, wat do i do. i dont really want to tell jen that i just want to be friends becuase she is hurt easily and if she starts making a scene i might give in. opinions?
 
calling this dude your "guy friend" isn't convincing anyone. I think the true issue here is that you just want your "guy friend" to make the first move.

dude just go for it, there only advantage to being that deep in the closet is finding y2k christmas presents
 
be straight up, but if u to get along u may wnat to give it a chance and if this so called "bob" is your friend then he will not get pissed
 
indeed join the ladies man cult and people will actully give you advice, cause threads like this are what that cult is for
 
do you want to go out with her? if not then dont, if you do, then ask Bob if its okay, and if he says no, then just tell the girl that its too soon, blah blah blah. Problem solved
 
if I had a dollar for every thread called either "girl trouble" or "girl help" I'd be driving around in a goddamn ferrari. I seriously think all these are the same thread when I see them but they are all different.

One of my friends dated a girl called jen... it turned out that she was cheating on him with like 2 other guys and none of them knew about any of the other ones.
 
Look at her record. If she ditched your friend, she'll probably do the same with you. Dont get into a relationship you regret, it is the definition of hell on earth.
 
If the guy is really one of your good friends you won't do that to him, if he REALLY likes her. And if you don't like her, then there's no point in ruining a good friendship.. I am sure you are familiar with the saying "bros before hoes". Just let her down gently, say something like you don't want it to ruin your friendship with your friend and if she has a heart she will Understand. If not.. she will come around sometime.
 
confront jen before she can ask you out, break it to her gently, then you can keep being friends with bob, jen, and the other girl
 
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