Girl problems

crooks

crooks

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ok so i know that everyone is going to say ladies men cult, but i need ur opinions quick...

there's this girl who lives in one of my best friend's town, and ive hung out with her only like 5 times, but we talk a ton... 2 nights ago we went into boston and we were together for like 5 hours and then last night we were at my friends house for another 5 hours... and like me and her were together a ton, and we were always walking in the back and holding hands and last night we looked at the starts and we walked her back home which is a 30 minute walk and we held hands the wholee way and she like clinged on to me

but i am not sure if she likes me, becuase she is a flirty girl and flirts a little with guys, but she was like defidently more flirty to me, and she kept saying all this stuff to me about how nice i am too...

so how do i ask her if she likes me without ruining our friendship? and this really sucks because im so whipped

please help
 
She likes you, I don't think girls just do that. She might not think you're the only one for her, but if you go for it, she'll go with it.
 
but idk cuz she flirts with everyone but it seemed like she did a ton more with me by alott

but this girl is so much different, like having fun with her doesnt mean making out and doing shit like that, i would be just as happy just being with her
 
and i like feel so comfortable around her to, like i can anything

but idk if she thinks we are just good friends
 
she likes you she wouldn't spend all the time with only you, holding hands with you, and telling you stuff if she didn't she wouldn't want to waste her time.
 
Pretty much same shit with my girl and I. We were in friend mode for 6+ months and then we started getting closer and so on. Until I made my move. After that she said, "What the hell took you so long?" Grab her butt and kiss her, end of story.
 
but idk if i wanna make it move because im a pussy about that kinda stuff like making a move when idk if the girl likes me, and it would be so hard to ask her strait out because if she said she wanted to be friends then it would like ruin our friendship because it would be soo awkward
 
if you walk home under the stars again just like grab her and stare into her eyes and smile and move in slowly, if she likes you she'll let you make the move or move in.
 
yea but its hard because if i am with her then that means i am with my friend ryan, like last night it was me, 2 other guys and these 2 twin girls, so it would be hard to make a move in front of 4 other ppl
 
Just start hanging out along with her. Scary sure, but just do it, you'll be glad you did either way later on.
 
what town near boston is it?

just make a move, the worst thatll happen is her just saying no. and besides, then youd have a reason to come back and make a thread bitching about her.
 
Just ask her to the movies or dinner or something. But don't go with other friends. Just you two. Chances are that if she'll go with you alone she likes you.
 
I knew a girl that was praticaly the same thing. we had been friends for so long i couldn't figure her out. In the end she made the first move and goes "you were taking too long" smiled and we went back at it.
 
ok thanks everyone for your help, i'm going into boston with her alone on thursday and go out to eat with her alone so ill ask her then
 
Yeah what town? (though im staying in Boston right now anyway) But seriously, make the move. Look at it this way, if you dont you will regret doing so for awhile. if you do she'll most likely go along with it. if you do and she doesnt go along with it shes a bitch for leading you on in such a big way and isnt worth your time. stop being such a goddamn vagina!
 
haha im sorry

and i live in milton, which is 2 commuter rail stops out of boston, it takes me 5 minutes on the train
 
ooo holding hands :O back to 2nd grade!

but seriously, just go for it, you've got nothin to loose
 
how do I ask her without ruining our friendship? DUDE YOU"VE KNOWN HER FOR 5 DAYS. There can't be that much of a friendship to ruin so just go for it and if you ruin it well there goes your 5 day amazing relationship
 
"last night we looked at the starts"

this is where you should have made your move. try it again. and yes, she probablly likes you. just be prepared to face it when its fucking over and you cant be friends anymore because she slowly fucking tore you heart instead of jjust breaking it and going.
 
im not good when it comes to girls. but im starting to realize girls are alot like us. they also want to get some ass....go for it buddy
 
do nottttt ask her if she likes you. she does man no worries. if u ask her if she likes u it may make things akward for when u talk or hang out... not necissarily but it does happen. just keep doing wat ur doing balls up and make a move next time. then after u make a move, let her call u. and if she doesnt, and u really like her, u call her, set up plans and shit. but wat ever u do dont seem overly like excited or nervous or anything just be chill.
 
give her a kiss when you say bye to her next time. or just straight up ask her what she want's to happen
 
like someone said before make a move and stop being a pussy. What is the worst that could happen she says oh i want to be friends. Big deal man. There is lots of chicks out there. Don't put the pussy on an petistule. (not sure how u spell that) but go in.
 
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