Girl help!

you're luckier than i am. this girl i really like wass makin me feel good and shit cause i think she might want to go out. so we go for a walk last sunday and little did i know she had one of her friends filming. so she got me into thinkin she wanted to give me a blowjob. so i thot this is weird for a first date but since i really like her i agree. suddenly she starts unzipping my pants and my dick pops out. so i think she's gonna get to her business when suddenly 3 of her friends step out from the bushes and one of them has a video camera. fuckin A! they started laughing and shit cause i really thot she was gonna suck my dick. so now basically everyone in school knows and it fuckin torments me. fuckin evil canniving bitch im gonna kill her.
 
Yeah you pretty much screwed yourself over with your attitude and it turned out more or less exactly as I would've expected... and exactly as it will every time you behave that way more or less... so yeah. You owned yourself. That's gotta suck.
 
so your saying you think that it was because I freeked after reading all this shit?

i mean its either that, or she said "yes" to be nice, but what she meant was "no"
 
This whole thing reminded me of a quote:

"Scenario 2: Tom meets Jane. She's cute and seems smart. After an appropriate amount of time he asks her out on a date. She acccepts and they have what seems to be a perfectly nice date. Tom thinks he has a chance with Jane. He asks her out again. She says no, either explicitly or by never returning his phone call. Tom has no idea what the Hell just happened. Jane starts fucking an unemployed alcoholic.

Ladder Theory Explanation: Jane misrepresented which ladder Tom was on. He thought he was on the good ladder because of her acceptance of the date. Mistake. This led to an unintentional ladder jump. He was kicked into the Abyss. In this situation, Jane often wants to stay friends becasue you are so interesting and funny or some shit like that. If this happens you are most likely an Intellectual Whore. I'm sorry. This is most likely to be a ninja-bitch."

Really, though, it's your fault as much as hers; if you send signals of being weak, nervous, anxious, worried, overthinking things, etc. etc. etc. which have all been obvious since you first posted this on the internet (there's a clue right there), you're doomed before you even start. This is a lesson everyone must learn at some point. Best you learn before any more college slips by because you're missing opportunities left right and center. Change of attitude would help.
 
ok, so pretty much your saying that it was both of us?

the one thing I dont understand from the quoat though is that it doesnt mention anything about Tom being anxious ro worried or anything.

ninja-bitch meaning that she seems nice when your just frineds but then....?

in this situation, she says yes but she is not so sure, but she just wants to see what happens with you and what you end up doing????

beleve me, i am well on my way to a change of attitude...
 
what a fucking depressing site man. it is pretty funny though.

I dont see how my situation is intellectual whoredom though. i thought you were saying that I screwed myself over being nervous or whatnot. or are you saying that this may help me get with this piticular girl, even though we are now "just friends"?
 
No. You don't understand at all. You need to spend more time on that site. Girls do not like guys who behave that way, and you seem to have an extreme case of being Beta (ie: not Alpha). So you screwed yourself over. But she's also a bitch for fucking with you. That's how it's both your fault and hers.
 
are any of you guys saying this realizing that she said "just friends"?

I mean is there still a chance even though she said that or what?
 
As you can see from the "Tom" example above, she can say yes, and actually go out with you, while you're still an IW.
 
I understand that girls do not like guys who behave that way. But what im saying is that if she was planning on making me her "intellectual whore" the whole time wouldnt she never have said yes?

or your saying she wasnt planning on making me her intellectual whore, but since I freeked, she did?
 
Yer, probably that, but not planning, girls know nothing about this junk and it just happens that way. Most of them don't even see it as a bad thing, they need someone to lean on or whatever. I doubt she had any sort of plan going into it. Just wanted to see where it could go. You led it nowhere good with the attitude you took in.
 
ohh i didn't know she said that.. well then sorry dude.. it looks like your pretty much screwed.. it sucks i know
 
my trouble with that site, is that no matter what, I beleve that if you are a good person, good things will happen. I see plenty of decent guys get alot of good ass. it just doesnt make sense.

"The first thing to notice here is that a woman has not one ,but two ladders. This is becasue in addition the normal ladder, a woman also has a friends ladder. The friends ladder is where a woman puts guys that she considers "just friends". More to the point where she puts guys who don't get to have sex with her.

The problem arises because a woman never lets a guy know which ladder he is on. Obviously there is a huge difference, or gap between these two ladders. It is in this gap that kisses of death are delivered and intellectual whores are made. All a man can do is "go for it" and make a move on a girl; ask her out, try to kiss her, write her a love note or whatever. If he's on the good ladder fine. If he is on the friends ladder this is a case of ladder jumping. The man is trying to jump the gap from the friends ladder to the real ladder. The girl has two choices at this point: she can let him on the ladder and all is well, or, more likely, she can kick him in the head, and off the ladder. If you look you'll see that below the ladder is the Abyss(what was it Nietzsche said about a man being on a rope stretched over an Abyss?....well it's worse than he thought; there is no rope.) So the man falls into the Abyss. The Abyss isn't really as bad as it sounds. Mostly it's a period of self-loathing, embarrassment, and of course utter awkwardness with the girl in question if they are talking at all."

but when she said "just freinds" she let me know what latter im not right (see bold). or do you think there is still a chance of redemption for me?
 
yeah sorry, i was just a little pissed off cuz the thread right above this one at the time was "porn question" with some kid asking us what he should type in on limewire......fuckkkk!
 
women ask for it, they act all old and mature and then you stick your cock in their ass and they get all bitchy, "I"M ONLY 13, I'M ONLY 13!!!"
 
No, no... let me be clear, you're about 95% screwed and you're better off looking elsewhere than trying to get with this girl, it's just not likely to happen and even if it did it'd be too much work. And get out of the mindset that it's nice guys or not nice guys... you might think the guys you're talking about are nice, and they might be... but they're probably not WEAK nice. It's mostly about confidence.
 
ok, thats what I thought. but what about the whore avoidance thing? whats that for? or thats for my situation, it is just alot of work?

I mean what if I gave har a card on valentines day saying "I like you too much just to be friends, do you want to give it another try at dating?" or something like that? -is that a kicked in the face situation?

depending, I am willing to give it alot of work...
 
If you keep trying it won't get you anywhere and it'll just cause you more irritation and humiliating rejection. Just get the fuck over her, stop talking to her if she starts explicitly IWing you, and go find some other girl to go after. I'm told there are about 3 billion of them out there.
 
so if I wait it out and just stay friends (something I would want to do anyway, because I like to be freindly with people, and plus, I might meet someone else through her) and if maybe something with us just sort of happens then thats pretty much the only way?

im trying to figure out, you said it would take alot of work. or did you mean to say as far as you can tell its impossible?

good things usually dont come easy...
 
Basically it's impossible. There's like a 5% chance of something happening maybe. But keeping that hope alive is just not even worth it. I wouldn't even stay friends with the girl, I can tell right now you're not going to let this shit go, and she's just going to use you. Drop her, don't talk to her, don't see her, avoid avoid. That's my advice. Go find someone else, seriously. The best thing for you is to get it out of your head, right now, that you'll ever get with her. Otherwise you'll learn a painful lesson over a long period of badness.

At this point, maintaining hope is your biggest enemy. Just drop it and move on.
 
naw theres nothing wrong with wanting a relationship. I mean it helped me forget about her. I know how hard it is getting over someone you like a lot... but trust me, going out and and having a nothing girl on your nuts makes you realize that there are a ton of other girls out there. But hey you might be different.
 
are you 13? why would you text her friend and why the fuck would she be mad at you... if shes mad at you for no reason there is no point in liking this girl
 
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