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ndrwchrst37

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girl friends ever make u feel like shit?

ever feel ignored or not special

ever get kinda pissed but feel like you shouldint be

my girl friend always is going places and is busy and has like 3 houses and a crazy family who are hell to deal with and latly our relation ship is like see each other once every two weeks for like 10 minutes

when we are together its awsome but there so much time we are not i dont feel very boyfriend ish arint u supposed to talk to u girl friend more then like 5 minutes on the phone every so offen

some times wee see each other but i mean some times its ridiculous and its always her leaving me and me having to chase her to see her

what should i do how should i feel

may i add shes real awsome its just such a hard relation ship to deal with some times i love her so much but just doint feel like she puts out as much effort

any comments tips stories?
 
yeah ur right i guess i just get pissed some times and then think that getting mad isint gonna solve anything but i mean after a while arint u allowed to be mad or upset seems like everything in the relationship iam not suppsed to worrie about (shes a mad laid back girl so nothing really stress her out to much but i guess i just think shit over to much)
 
yeeah i was in a relationship like that for 8 months(well the first 3 months were good but then it got ugly).

and of course i was dating a guy so yeah.

but whatever you do, dont tell her tat you think she isnt putting in effort. she could change that right back onto you somehow...

dont ask...it just happened to me and it was shitty
 
seriously make it seem like theres so much goin on in your life and paly hard to get this way she comes after you callin you askin you quest

 
Why do all the new people seem to type horribly... run-on sentences, poor spelling and grammar, AIM abbreviations... it's ridiculous.

On-topic though: That sucks, just figure out what's most important to you and go with it. It's your life, so do whatever will make you the happiest.
 
haha poor typing spelling and grammer i think this is the new generation... i blame things like ns and msn... but on topic... have you talked to her about it??? cuz that may help..... although im no expert AT ALL when it comes to relationships.
 
i would consider myself lucky if those things were true. I have always had the opposite prolbem. Way to attached and never any alone time. And pointless 20 hour phone conversations.
 
You should dump her and hook up with mad girls she will get jelous and then she will come back to you and want your nuts maybe my theory will work and maybe my thoery is why I now have mono
 
usually these things need to be worked out by yourself and/or her, you really shouldnt depend on people you dont know via the internet
 
at least she's not clingy?

but yeah i can't imagine it's a good feeling having to chase her. i'm sorry it's going so well... relationships are fucking hard.
 
girls are either clingy or ignorant, and we always want the ignorant ones to be glingy, and the clingy ones to be ignorant
 
yeah I had my previous girlfriend had the most rediculous standards and wanted more and more than what I could give! I told her at the begining of the relationship that I wouldnt have all the time in the world to be her little slave and make her feel like some princess. In the end I broke up with her cause I felt like I just didnt wanted to be in a relationship at all.
 
honestly bro... what is the point of being in that relationship anymore? if you never see her, and feel like you have to chase her down to get any time with her, it is time to end it. I understand you love her and all, but you can love a lot of people. Just because you love her doesn't mean you have to marry her, or even continue in a shitty relationship. Just think about why you are in the relationship.
 
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