Girl, bad dreams, weird

jimmychung

jimmychung

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This is my first time ever posting about my girl. I'm not crying about anything, I'm not sexually confused or anything, just listen. I've been dating this girl for close to two years. We went out for a little over a year, broke up for about 8 months, then got back together and have been going out for almost a year again. Lately, she's been having really bad dreams about me, where I'd cheat on her or just do something really really bad to her. What do you make of this? I keep telling her that I'd never do anything like that ever, and she knows that, but she keeps having them, and they really upset her. Could they just be because she cares about me and doesn't want that to happen?
 
I'd say that she's afraid that you're going to cheat on her but she's only afraid subconsciously so it only comes out when she's dreaming.
 
Cheating

To dream that you are cheating on your spouse, mate, fiancé, or significant other, suggests feelings of self-guilt and self-betrayal. You may have compromised your beliefs or integrity and/or wasting your energy and time on fruitless endeavors. Alternatively, it reflects the intensity of your sexual passion and exploring areas of your sexuality. It is actually a reaffirmation of your commitment. Furthermore, it is not uncommon for people approaching a wedding to have dreams about erotic experiences with partners other than their intended spouses. Most likely, such dreams represent the newness of your sexual passion. It may also signify anxieties of changing your identity - that of a spouse.

To dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you, indicates your fears of being abandoned. You may feel a lack of attention in the relationship. Alternatively, you may feel that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others. This notion may stem from issues of trust or self-esteem. The dream could also indicate that you are unconsciously picking up hints and cues that your significant other is not being completely truth or is not fully committed in the relationship.

thats what i got when i looked it up =D
 
shes just worried about that happening so much becuz she loves u so much that she doesnt want it 2 happen so bad that that might b all she thinks about and thats why she is dreaming about it, cuz she loves u so much!
 
there are only two possible solutions, both of which are 100+% correct.

solution number 1) the bitch has some supernatural powers, where she can see the future and the only way that she can fix it is the envoe The Butterfly Effect 2 so she can go back in time to correct solution 2)

solution 2) you are definetely sexually confused and will end up cheating on her with a man named amanda
 
Ohh man, I have the most fucked up dreams ever you must just have a crazy imagination like me.

On a lighter note.. my friend was dating this insane chick for a while. She use to dream that he cheated her all the time and she use to get mad at him and yell at him, when in reality he never actually cheated on her.

He eventually broke up with her. Thank God!
 
^ ouch.

They're just dreams... tell her to learn how to control them. When she realises that she is haveing a dream she can start to consciencly effect its outcome or at least how she reacts to what shes dreaming about.
 
hahaha, thats harsh, thats odd though wiht the dreams, just take her out and give her the best time ever make her feel special and all that good stuff so hopefully, shell just forget about it
 
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