after reading this, i think both people are sorta at fault.
californiawhatever probably shouldn't have given him the money in the first place. maybe like $10, but $65 is a bit over the top for a stranger.
eastar5 should have repayed him as soon as possible. i'm not sure why it took so long, but those excuses are just excuses. if you're drinking all week and doing shit, you have the dough. i know how sweet drinking is, i spend quite a few on beers a week, but still, honor your reputation. you've done mad shit for this site, as far as i've seen (crochet cult, entertaining posts, steez on the skeez), but you can spare $65. i have like -$100 from court, and i can pay back my friends the $40 i borrowed for booze.
just my opinion.