Yo i think its fucked up too... but really, are they wasting their lives? If cutting themselves while having sex makes it happen for them, then that's what makes it happen. Smokin blunts, skiing, parachuting, pain, sex, etc. etc... its all a rush. It's all just a high. We are in an endless pursuit to satisfy chemical happiness, whether by naturally relased seratonin, or by brain blasting extasy. It's all a part of acheiving the high.
But yea... I think adrian is the weird one here. He chooses a bit of weed over some head... talk about fucked up!
(kidding... i know about your girl lol...)