listen buddy, you do a terrible job at defending frats
first off, I'm still incredibly good friends with every single one of my high school "friends."  and I'm a sophomore.  and I haven't lost touch with a single one.  maybe you aren't good at making friends.  just some more frat bullshit about how you guys will be "remembered" or you make lasting connections.  hahaha thats funny.  I like my real friends I made on my own, thanks.
second, you say we are all concerned over frats, but you guys aren't.  oh, but I beg to differ.  you guys think you're the shit.  I don't care if you say this isn't true, because on some level all frat guys think theyve got something going on beyond the normal person, or else why would you join a frat?
you talk about having friends who will back you up under any circumstance.  and there is where you lost all your credibility.  you need people to back you up in fights because you are assuming fights will occur.  you have a violent mentality.  I dont really give a shit if my friends will blindly back me up, first I am not gonna back up one of my friends by suckerpunching someone in the back of the head (which is all frat guys do, Ive seen it happen a bunch) because if my friend starts some shit, I'll help break things up but I am not gonna kick some guys ass for them if they got themselves into it.  also I try to avoid fights, you obviously are hoping they will happen, like most frat guys.
heres how to properly defend frats.  most frats are lame.  there are some cool ones.  the lame ones ruin it for the cool ones.  but you can't say they all suck.  just a lot of them do.