Ever feel like you just don't seem to matter?

Darth.Maul

Darth.Maul

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I'm about to explode and I have to rant a little bit. I've been with this girl for a while and we both were absolutely perfect for eachother! We have been going out for a couple months and it has been the best relationship ive ever had with a girl. Were never awkward or anything and always have a blast chilling with each other. So this continued for almost 3 months and then a couple days ago she started acting weird. At first it might be that time of the month or if something was going on. Of course she said she was fine but it continued for about a week. I couldn't for the life of me figure out what was going on. Everything was going so smoothly. My friend had hooked up with her twin sister about a week before this started happening and they were getting pretty into each other. Tonight, he tells me after we drop her twin off that I should stop seeing Ellie. I'm taken back and don't know what to say. I thought she was just having a bad week or something. At this point i feared that I was doing something wrong, but i couldn't think of anything.

My friend then proceeds to tell me that she's been seeing this dickfuck named Mike for about a week. I'm so taken back by this that I don't even know what to say. Our relationship was just like one out of the movies, it was perfect! I can't even describe the feeling in my gut right now, its like someone took my heart and raised it up on a flagpole for everyone to see. And the worst part is, I took her home around 11PM and we dropped her twin off at midnight. I decided to drive with my friend and when we get there she was already fucking cuddling with that fucker on her porch.

Did i really mean that little to her or what? I just don't get it? I keep beating myself up for thinking I wasn't doing a good job but I realize that I'm not the one to blame. I'm just so emotionally torn right now and its bugging the hell out of me.

Sry for the rant but I feel much better after this. This is the first time this has ever happened to me and it's one of the worst beatings ive ever had.

tldr: FUCK YOU ELLIE
 


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You saw her cuddling with another guy on her porch and you didn't get of your car and confront them?
Yeah, I know it's better to take the high road but sometimes it's nice to kick the shit out of the guy that your girlfriend has been fucking behind your back. So, if you're not going to do that I recommend you move on from this skeez bag, start drinking with your friends more often, and get some strange at a party next weekend. Thats the cure for a broken heart.
 
That was before my friend Kyle told me about her and his car. He told me while we were driving off to avoid a confrontation which I would have well started.
 
Hmm probably for the better. Like I said Booze, Buddies, and Boobs. The best way to get past a skeez like this.
Oh and have sex with her one more time then immediately after start getting dressed then tell her you know she has been cheating and that you two are over. Next yell at her for sure, call her a cheating cunt, tell her she sucked at sex, and tell her that she has been putting on weight. Flip her the bird and walk out.
Like when I have found out that a girl cheated on me it really hurts so, call me an asshole i do not care, I try to say the meanest things I can to them and make them cry. It makes me feel better after the fact, like yeah she cheated, but I fucked her then dumped her and made her cry. So don't hold back because you used to love her, really lay into her.
I hate cheating bitches.
 
Maybe your friend has been banging your girlfriend the whole time, but just pretending it was her twin to avoid suspicion, and maybe you were banging your girlfriend's twin because she was just taking her place for the sex because your girlfriend was with your friend. So, the person who's actually cheating on you is in fact your girlfriend's twin sister, while your real girlfriend has actually been cheating on you the whole time with your friend. You're stuck in a crazy criss cross of cheating. The only solution is to bang your friend and kill one of the twins, then light their house on fire. If the surviving twin still loves you, she will emerge from her burning house, suck your dick, and die in your arms while you climax in her singed hair.
 
Dont worry about it, the probability that she was the perfect girl for you is 3,209,000,000:1.

There are literally over 3 billion other fish in the sea, so make like a fish and... erm... Meet girls?
 
Hey man, sounds like a shitty situation.

Here's my input, take it or leave it.

Don't blame yourself, it was her choice. If she doesn't want you anymore, then fuck it, she isn't worth your time.

It may not seem like it at this very moment, but there's over 7 billion people on this planet, you're bound to find another girl, that you might even like 10x more then this one, that didn't even have the respect for you to tell you she was losing interest.

It's probably not bad that you didn't get in a fight, because the other guy probably either had no idea about you, or didn't think it would matter because in the game life, you either win or lose. No one's gonna give up a chance to get with a cute girl if he knows he has a chance, even if there's another guy. At that point, it's considered competition. We ALL know how much males seem to enjoy competition.

Straight up man, she's a bitch. It'll take some time for the wounds to heal, but you've just gotta move on.

There's one sort've guideline that everyone seems to unconciously live by, and it looks like you went too far in 'the game'.

Ever heard of the saying, 'you want what you can't have?'

Sounds to me like you were there for her every whim, you probably thought there was love involved (maybe, just guessing by how sincere you sounded about her) and once she realized these things, and she knew she had that control over you, she didn't want you anymore. You didn't have anything mysterious to bring to the table to keep her interested. So she found a new guy.

It is, and isn't your fault. You didn't really know how to play the game. And the game sucks, because you want to play it a certain way, and be sincere with each other, but really, it's the opposite to what you should do, because it just ends up fucking you in the ass after it all, like it has right now for you.

She's clearly moved on, so now it's time for you to be a man, have some self-respect, and don't waste time on people that will lead you on and not tell you what's really going on.

You know what to do, now you just have to do it.

You're better then her, and she lost a great match. Go find some other chick that's 10x hotter, make her jealous.
 
Since i'm into stencil work, and I have been working on one of her, I'm just gonna put bitch in the caption and spraypaint it on the side walk in front of her house. She doesn't know that I know about any of this yet.
 
Thanks for that. Really insightful. I'm planning on moving on but it will take a little time.

So heres the real question i guess, How do you know when a girl's being honest? There was sincerity both ways. (So I've thought until tonight)
 
they dont, having two of the same reproductive organ makes it impossible to reproduce. Besides, why do you want to watch baby chickens having homosexual sex?
 
Well she doesn't know that I know any of this yet so she's still texting me like before. So should I just call her a cunt and leave it or is there a way to make it more satisfying?
 
Fuck her, fuck her sister, fuck her mom, THEN call her out.

...and don't forget to light her house on fire and kill her dog.
 
Sex the living hell out of her, then hand cuff her to a sex swing and leave her there after telling her she is a cheating hoe.
 
Nah dude did you not read my post? It said have sex with her one more time, after you finish, prefereably on her face or tits so she has to go wipe up. While she wipes off, put on your clothes, tell her you know she has been cheating, and that you are breaking up, then just lay into her call her a cunt, tell her she has been gaining weight, tell her that she sucks at sex and then walk out after you have said your piece.
 
It's simple; You Don't.

She simply made a bitch-move by leading you on. You thought she was sincere, and you trusted her. She decided to throw that trust in your face and spit on it. Nothing you can do about that.

The thing with girls is; when they say something, they usually mean the exact opposite. I'm sure you've heard that before, and it's generally pretty true. Unfortunately.

From my POV, that's probably what hurts the most for you. You trusted her, and she disregarded it completely. I don't want to tell you not to trust girls anymore, because that's counter-productive. Maybe just be a little more observant. A little caution and question never hurt anybody.
 
i like thisbust on her face

dont tell her you know shes been cheating, this way she thinks its because of the other reasons

tell her shes put on too much weight

tell her shes terrible at sex and her vag looks weird

tell her she has some ugly facial feature that will make her self conscious

leave and go fuck randoms
 
I people who say this. When you love someone and they break your heart it hurts, regardless of being in high school or college.
 
Ah yes. Honesty. Unfortunately the only real way to know that a girl is honest with you is date for a looong time. Some girls are straight up about everything, some just like to play with your heart and some are just as confused as you. I dated a guy once for 8 months. Didn't really like him I just didn't want to be alone. Pretty terrible now that I look back on it. Everyone has dick/bitch moves every once in a while though. Just feel the pain and move on. There really are lots of fish in the sea and you will have plenty of chances to get your heart broken many times over. It's all just part of life ;)
 
Sounds like a plan. Hopefully her twin doesn't ruin it or I'll do the same to her. Love all of you guys! I really do feel a lot better now.
 
OP is useless and doesn't matter. Anyone that believes they do is either psychopathic or megalomaniacal or both. Get over it.
 
you seem like a stand-up guy, op, so here, read this. i hope it helps.

Faint Music

Maybe you need to write a poem about grace.

When everything broken is broken,

and everything dead is dead,

and the hero has looked into the mirror with complete contempt,

and the heroine has studied her face and its defects

remorselessly, and the pain they thought might,

as a token of their earnestness, release them from themselves

has lost its novelty and not released them,

and they have begun to think, kindly and distantly,

watching the others go about their days—

likes and dislikes, reasons, habits, fears—

that self-love is the one weedy stalk

of every human blossoming, and understood,

therefore, why they had been, all their lives,

in such a fury to defend it, and that no one—

except some almost inconceivable saint in his pool

of poverty and silence—can escape this violent, automatic

life’s companion ever, maybe then, ordinary light,

faint music under things, a hovering like grace appears.

As in the story a friend told once about the time

he tried to kill himself. His girl had left him.

Bees in the heart, then scorpions, maggots, and then ash.

He climbed onto the jumping girder of the bridge,

the bay side, a blue, lucid afternoon.

And in the salt air he thought about the word “seafood,”

that there was something faintly ridiculous about it.

No one said “landfood.” He thought it was degrading to the rainbow perch

he’d reeled in gleaming from the cliffs, the black rockbass,

scales like polished carbon, in beds of kelp

along the coast—and he realized that the reason for the word

was crabs, or mussels, clams. Otherwise

the restaurants could just put “fish” up on their signs,

and when he woke—he’d slept for hours, curled up

on the girder like a child—the sun was going down

and he felt a little better, and afraid. He put on the jacket

he’d used for a pillow, climbed over the railing

carefully, and drove home to an empty house.

There was a pair of her lemon yellow panties

hanging on a doorknob. He studied them. Much-washed.

A faint russet in the crotch that made him sick

with rage and grief. He knew more or less

where she was. A flat somewhere on Russian Hill.

They’d have just finished making love. She’d have tears

in her eyes and touch his jawbone gratefully. “God,”

she’d say, “you are so good for me.” Winking lights,

a foggy view downhill toward the harbor and the bay.

“You’re sad,” he’d say. “Yes.” “Thinking about Nick?”

“Yes,” she’d say and cry. “I tried so hard,” sobbing now,

“I really tried so hard.” And then he’d hold her for a while—

Guatemalan weavings from his fieldwork on the wall—

and then they’d fuck again, and she would cry some more,

and go to sleep.

And he, he would play that scene

once only, once and a half, and tell himself

that he was going to carry it for a very long time

and that there was nothing he could do

but carry it. He went out onto the porch, and listened

to the forest in the summer dark, madrone bark

cracking and curling as the cold came up.

It’s not the story though, not the friend

leaning toward you, saying “And then I realized—,”

which is the part of stories one never quite believes.

I had the idea that the world’s so full of pain

it must sometimes make a kind of singing.

And that the sequence helps, as much as order helps—

First an ego, and then pain, and then the singing.

-Robert Hass
 
eventually, you'll realize that this nearly all of the things that happen in high school are not important.

you'll survive!
 
why is this site filled with so many fucking pussies now!? jesus christ, you kids are pathetic. "wahhh my girl did this! wahhh!" you might was well title the thread, i gave away my balls and dick today.
 
Just take the high road and be the better person, don't do anything to her just move on. I know its hard and i know u want to get back at her but its only going to create more problems for you. It would be in your best interest to just move on and find a girl you happier with, someone who you know you can trust. Just remember that life goes on and its not worth getting revenge, its honestly just not worth it.
 
cum on her facetell her she has a weird looking clit

say shes bad at sex

break up with her

dont mention that you know shes cheating
 
Are you positive she even has a twin? Have you seen the in the same room? Are they always wearing identical outfits? These are some questions you need to answer
 
People don't change dramatically in a short period of time. There were signs that this was going to happen early on the relationship. The fact that you noticed something seemed off and didn't feel comfortable asking her about it is something to think about. Look back, introspect, figure out the signs you missed, and you'll be able to better protect yourself in the future, as well as become better at spotting the right girls.
 
Every who isn't in high school says this. I know it's true and I will say the same thing once I'm out, but it's so hard to believe when you're still in high school! It fucking sucks.

But to OP, just go party for a weekend and bang a super hot babe. GL bro!
 
WOWEN LOGIC right here!

According to girls:

When a guy gets depressed for being 2 timed by a girl, the guy is at fault for being a cry baby. When a girl gets dumped by a guy in a respectful she can go all out psychodic and the guy is at fault for being an asshole.

To OP, let the bitch go. Sure it hurts because she did not live up to your expectations, but you know, there are always other fish in the sea. Not all women are 2 timing whores. Learn from the experience and never get emotionally attached to someone right away. Relationships take a long time to forge and can be broken in a minute. Hang on tight and the pain will fade. Or fat chicks, they need some loving too!

 
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