Good stuff on getting it sorted out, out of interest do you know the capacity on the batteries you got?
For speed controllers the only things you need to worry about are how much voltage you are putting though them (You seemed to have ascertained 12, so get a controller rated for such) and how many amps the motor is going to pull-this is where it might get tricky.
Since the motor will pull a certain amount of amps when it's under load (Ie. when it's pulling you), that current will have to go through the controller, you're probably going to have to test this yourself, but I'm sure there's a way to work out the amp draw of an electric motor under a set load. This is the most important part however, as the motor doesn't care if it's pulling more amperage than the controller (Or the batteries mind you) can handle. You basically want to build the system around what you're expecting of the motor.
The Rc setup will basically....cost a shit ton. Batteries are like $500 a piece, motors maybe 300, not sure on the speed controllers. (Expensive hobby)
Good luck, sounds like you have it fairly sorted, get some videos up if you can, would be interested to see the design of this.