callate you fucking cholo. I don't know if that's an insult or a term of endearment in the country you're from--and I don't give a fuck where the slang comes from...it's your problem, you're the one who called yourself "ese".
man real dubstep is so not candyland shit. It's dark and expressive and angry and unforgiving. Fuck candyland rave shit. That couldn't be more different from legit dubstep.