Haha man that's cheese.  Basically, you just got roll with it bro.  I have been doing the no poles thing for years now, and every single time I ride, you get chumps talkin' shit.  I still hear it everyday, and we probably always will. That's the problem with our sport man, too many haters.  It's the same as how everyone sizes you up the second they see you, so whatevs, just let your riding do the talking, and remember the most important thing...have fun!  As long as you are having fun, nothing else really matters.
I agree with a bunch of you, 99% of no polers do look pretty awkward, but once you master the no arm flail, it's super steez.
And you have to remember, for the most part, the peeps doing all the talking are just little rich shits, decked out in new gear, following the trends, spinning with their arms, not progressing shit.  Haha, that's how it is at Edelweiss anyway.  But last time I checked, none of them were throwing handplants mid run, or having half the fun I have.  So just turn your headphones up louder ya feel me?
Cheers & Beers