Dilema (what do I do)?

Melvs

Melvs

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So last night a family friend died unexpectedly. I used to mow the families lawn, and the kids used to baby sit me when i was young (they are both much older than me). the funeral is saturday, but I have had plans to ski friday, stay overnight at a condo that nioght, and do a comp saturday. My parents have left the choice up to me. Do i go to the funeral, or ski? I was very close to the family, but I didn't interact with the one who died much...what do I do?

-Pat
 
that's a touchy subject... really a decision that should truly be up to you, not some dude on the net.

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send flowers and ski

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Man, that is hard. I really dunno. 9MK has a good point, but it's still so hard. Because it's mroe then just skiing it soudns like. It sounds like you have solid plans laid down.

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ya, I've had tenative plans laid down for a few weeks now.. but I would feel guilty if I wasn't at the funeral, but i would also regret not skiing becuase I was one of the people that got all the plans laid out. I just wanna see what you guys think, mabye it will help me out making up my mind.

-Pat
 
How much do you respect the guy?

In the long run (like years from now), which would you most regret missing?

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would it be possible to stop in, pay respects to the family, and then ski?

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i think that would be good mad trixx. or go ski and on the break go to like the after funeral party thing or the funeral to pay respects to the family

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think about it man, youll be skiing and not going to the funeral will be on your mind. you probably wont be able to ski as good as you can, and itll be a shitty day and youll regret not showing up. you can ski anyday, your friend only dies once. pay your respects and make plans for another weekend

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Yeah, drop in beore hand, say you have a competition, but stay like the whole day, maybe do somethings around their house for them. I dont' know, personally, there isn't any snow rihgt now in Washingotn, so i'd go the the funeral. And you only die once. i know i just contradicted myself, but your in a tight spot. go to the funeral, it's the nice thing to do since you were close to the family. it will mean a lot to them.

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whatever you do, make the funeral, even for a bit. the snow probably isn't even that good anyways and if you're going up with a bunch of guys they'll understand if you don't go, contrary to what girls think of us. not a really good comparison here but when i was 11 i skipped my aunt's wedding when my family went and i always feel guilty when i see her around.

 
Dude, go to the funeral. There will be other days to ski. If you go skiing, you will probably suck major ass because you will feel bad about blowing off the funeral.

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I am going to the funeral. the ski area is 2 hours away, so going half day wouldn't work so well. I thought about it and figured that it is much more important. Thanks for all your imput boys and girls.

-Pat
 
why not go to the wake, which is probably on Thursday or Friday, if you guys have those too. I'm not sure. That is what I would do! Pay your respects and then go ski.

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when I die I could care less who goes to my funeral, I'm dead. Go ski.

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always remember the golden rule...i forget most of it but i know the moral is treat ppl like u wanna be treated....oh and your parents suck if theyre making you take charge on this decision

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No, I think his parents are doing the right thing. That says a lot they they trust him to do what he thinks is best and shows that they trust him.

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send flowers and polietly make it known you dont like funerals...

its a prefectly decent excuse that you dont feel comofrtable at them.

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go to the funeral. why do you even have to ask? have some respect bro.

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yeah i agree too that his parents did the right thing..but i dont take responsibility well..i cant even decide if i wanna go to the mall to buy shit on friday

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oh but yeah, skiing is our hobby but its not our life..friends and family are the most important things we have...can you imagine right now if you were going skiing and you had NO friends at all..prioritize brother

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i would definately go to the funeral. i have been to a few and skipped some, and they are really hard to go to. you end up wishing you had gone when you dont, but never wishing you hadnt when you do

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i just dont like funerals ;)

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well... I'm headed up to waterville today, gonna ski all today, stay over, ski half day tommorow, go home and to the funeral. Thanks again for all the input.

-Pat
 
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