Uh, UVM, Clarkson, St Mikes, and St Lawrence are all $45k+. Right there, there are at LEAST 100 kids who are enrolled right now, not to mention the 100s that have already graduated from these places.
Hate to break it to ya, but skiing isn't exactly a poor man's sport (until you break out of mommy and daddy's support, and you're trying to ski bum on your own).
My theory on this is, if your parents comfortably have the money, why wouldn't you support your kids? So you can laugh at them for having anywhere between $20k and $200k in debt?
When I was in school, my parents would pay about $4000 each/year (about 1/4 the price of in-state tuition) and it was up to me to cover the rest. When I was at community college, Financial Aid covered tuition + books and I was paying for gas/food/activities.