Hah well personally I've hated the name newschoolers.com for a looooong time... I think its just so 2001. But, that being said I think that we're stuck with it. Skilounge is alright, but it doesn't speak to what we are. Any generic ski names just don't suit it... freeskiing.com and freeskier.com are good, but taken. So don't think that you're going to be seeing a namechange anytime within the near future, we'd all decide that together and it would probably take a really long time.
To define newschool skiing though, I always give one very simple sentence to people that ask me.
"Skiing's answer to snowboarding."
Snowboarding isn't as fragmented as skiing because it got to start fresh. Kids got into it, and snowbarding was just snowbarding whether your rode pipe, park, BC, raced, whatever, its was just about going out and having a good time.
Newschool skiing to me means the new thought behind skiing, which all of the youth is embracing. You don't have to be just a racer, or just a recreational skier, park rat, big mountain guy, whatever... you can simply go out on the hill and enjoy whatever aspect of skiing you wish without worrying about it.
Thats what it means to me.