Dating your ex's best friend

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rugbydave

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yeah so I wanna go out with my ex's best friend. I know she's into it cause she's giving off some mad signals. However, my ex has just moved back into town kinda throwing a wrench into my plans. Nothing against my ex, I still think she's rad and we get along well, but I wonder if this has just screwed me. As a guy, I know you're not really supposed to date a buddy's ex, unless he dumper her. Well, in this case, she dumped me so I figure that the reverse should be true. Any thoughts?

be original, hate your government
 
this morning at school I walked right into a dance comittee meeting. When the teacher told me to "beat it" I fell on the floor laughing....I finally left after about 2 minutes of laughing.

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the thing is I don't really see what I have to lose. I mean worse case scenario it blows up, big deal... I dunno

be original, hate your government
 
Do it. If you want to be a nice guy about it you tell your ex that you're interested in her best friend. Don't ask for permission though, just let her know. The only things a guy should ever have to ask permission for are threesomes and going in the back door.

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the man knows what he's saying. Except for the back door part. There nothing like the shock in their faces when you just poke it in there.

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Screw this I'm going skiing
 
Shit i have been with my ex's best friend for almost 2 year's.........holy fuck thats why i dont have a life.

Just dip your dong in paint and smack your helmet with it.
 
if youre going in the back door, how do you see her face? do it in front of a mirror?

To understand mankind, we must first understand the word. We can break the word down into two sub-words, 'mank' and 'ind'.What these two words mean is a mystery, just like mankind itself.
 
Go for it, if she dumped you and her friend sees no problem with getting her best friend's "sloppy" seconds then there should be no problem on your end.

'I like long walks on the beach...sipping champagne by the fire...gutting dear... (Tweaks_Rock_me)

"Silly faggot, dicks are for chicks." (Skierman)
 
they usually turn around like a dolphin and go "uh-uh, uh-uh"

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the ex dumped you so your in the clear.

start going out with her best friend and see how much shit you can cause.

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check it. i grew up a fuckin screw up, got introduced to the game, got a ounce, and fuckin blew up.
 
depends how long its been. over 2 months its fine you dont even need to ask. otherwise you should tell ur ex you like her bf

07' fo life bitch

I dont know what ya heard about me,

but ya aint gettin a smirinoff for free,

you can sit yourself, on-my-knee,

but keep ya hands off me P.I.N.T.

 
what the fuck, its a non-issue, your ex is no friend at all if she tries to stop you and her friend from dating

Like a virgin on prom night

You can go on the bottom bunk and finish it yourself

When you guys are on those rails, it's like muah

You A-hole
 
Go for it... I imagine there might be a little tension at first but I'm sure all parties will get over soon enough. Unless she still had a thing for you, which she probably didn't since she broke if off.

-katie
 
ok... now what about dating your best friends ex??? whats the consensus on that?

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is when it hits, you feel no pain...
 
then why ask? hit that shit kamasutra style man

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A tall, well built women with good

reputation, who can cook frog

legs, who appreciates a good fuc-

shia garden, classical music and tal-

king without getting too serious.

But please only read lines 1, 3, and 5
 
I say go, but be cautious, if your ex has a lot of bad things to say, or knows a lot of secrets you'd rather her friend not know... just realize that your ex will probably talk shit on you, and my guess is she might know some things you don't want her friend knowing.

That and be sure to let her know, so she doesn't find out from somebody else.

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My heroes don't appear on no stamps.

Our greatest glory consists not in never falling. But in rising every time we fall.

 
my friend is attempting to sleep with his ex's entire inner circle of friends. you should try it

To understand mankind, we must first understand the word. We can break the word down into two sub-words, 'mank' and 'ind'.What these two words mean is a mystery, just like mankind itself.
 
Thanks all for generally saying that I should hit it. I'm therefore moving ahead with my plan and we'll see how much shit flies cause I have atleast one big relationship fiasco a year ( oh yeah, the ex in question is my buddy's lil sis...)

yeeeeee

be original, hate your government
 
now that you say that...maybe you should casually talk to everyone involved and kind of get their point of view. since you and your ex seem to be somewhat friends at first she'll be jealous but since she ended things she just has to get over it...do you know how her friend feels about dating her friends ex? but like everyone said i think even if you dont talk to them most likely it will be rocky at first but things will work out and you should def go for it.

 
Don't mess up their friendship like that

SkeeOrDie: I don't hate boarders, I hate fuckers, and 8-year olds that call everyone nigger face.
 
yeah, i'm with jay on this one. have the common courtesy to give your ex the heads up.

i'm a dude, but i've been in pretty much the same situation as you, except i was the "ex" of sorts.......

a heads up from my buddy beforehand would have been better than the way it acually played out.

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