Damn morals getting in the way

Mezmerize19

Mezmerize19

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Yeah well Im waiting for a ladies man invite but untill then I figure why not post it?

Well ive been in catholic school all my life and I never thought any of the shit they teach you in religon would affect me...untill now. Theres this girl I got with. Shes really nice and I think I can get somewhere with her. Well you cant have it all and theres some flaws. One is she drinks which im not a fan of but i brush it off thinking it wont cause a problem. Now im talking to her on the phone and shes drinking and gave her friend one. She does the girl thing and announces she has to piss and goes leaving the phone with her drunk friend. Well she's spewing crap out of her mouth that im not taking seriously cause shes drunk and she says something about her and my girlfriend going out to smoke. That caught my attention fast cause not 5 minutes before she was looking for matches and I ask her for what and shes like for nothing and i wipe it out of my mind for now thinking ah its nothing. Well she comes back and is like well im gonna go outside for a bit ill call you back later when we come back in. Well im thinking your on your cell why dontcha just bring it out with you but I dont say anything and just leave it alone thinking ah dammit.
 
She probly lied about smoking cuz ur so uptight about stuff like that. Im sure you could find a girl that is like you and doesent drink or smoke but if you like why not just let her be herself and maybe she wont have to hide anything from u.
 
just cause she didnt tell you that she smokes or cause she didnt want to talk to you when she was outside??
 
here's what you do: ask her why she didn't tell you she was going outside to smoke. Her response should tell you a lot about her. Or don't ask her, accept that it is one of her flaws, and be prepared to deal with it the next time it comes up.
 
despite if you think she is hot or not, you cant go out with someone who isnt honest with you and doesnt respect you like when your trying to talk to her on the phone by setting you up with her drunk friend.

all moral issues aside, its a matter of common relationship, and you should try and get her to own up or ditch her ass
 
get the hell away from her, sounds like a dirty tramp to me. man, that would not float my boat at all, nasty shit.
 
Don't let a girl change your beliefs man. Just let her go, she's not that great if she has to lie to you to go light up. Find a nice girl that you actually like.
 
dude.. relax.. its all you can do. if your trying to relate you going to catholic school with not smoking or drinking thats pretty fucked. Jesus cheifed mad blunts back in the day. i mean fuck, i've got bitches going and blowing coke with ex boyfriends. shiit, give it a couple years, you'll be smokin cigs.
 
Is this a joke? Seriously?

Just go join the priesthood. You're never going to find any worthwhile human being who you're happy with. And I thought my standards were too high...
 
for one dont let her change you. no bitch is worth it, keep that as a law. im saying this as i would if it was any reason a guy was in the position to change for a girl. personally i think what i feel has already been said, just deal with the drinking and if smoking bothers you tell her its nasty and get her to stop. if you want to try drinking/smoking do it because you want to, not because of some girl to try to get with her. i would persue something with her if you like her, and ignore these flaws. im catholic too. you are apparently more into your faith than i am, because my views have shifted and been altered by myself from the strict teachings, such as no drinking to get drunk. i dont knowhow old you are, but drinking is pretty common. and you DONT HAVE TO DO IT IF YOU DONT WANT TO. never feel pressured into anything. you can definently still be "cool" and not drink man. i have friends that dont, and we dont pressure them, its about respect. if you dont like smoking, tell her. also, as ive said, you dont have to drink too to be with her. if shes cool, she'll respect that and like you for you.
 
drinking is fine but cigs definately take some points off the hotness scale. depends on who she is man if shes mature about it its fine but if she does it to +1 attention then peace dat hoe
 
yo i drink and party all the time, but ive found if you really like someone(arent just trying to get a piece of ass) dont party with them or drink with them.
 
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