your dad sounds like a crazy angry dickhole like my dad, he once screamed at me all day and made this huge dramatic upset because i said "how can they ban batteries from the airport?" (i saw a glimpse of the news while walking downstairs) instead of "hello" in the morning. he also got my mom on his side and then they were both against me for several weeks...for doing nothing.
but taking your car and not letting you ski is straight up unacceptable. if you have balls, go up to him and give him a bigger bitching than he gave you. if you dont have the balls, talk to a coucellor or something.