Creep vs player

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hotgarbage

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so I am college educated and being in social sciences I learned a lot

about gender in society and feminism. In class though I would always

hear girls complaining that men hit on them all the time and treated

them like objects. Although I could see how all this attention could

get old, but at the same time I have to feel for my fellow man. Most of

these girls wore suggestive clothing and as a

single man with a brain hard wired to get his sperm out there, how else

is a man supposed to find a mate with out coming on to girls?

Eventually a man is going to have to sac up and move in for the kill

right?... is that being a rapist? Is that sexually harassing them, or is that just the natural play of events. I guess my real question here is

where is the line between being a creep and being casual? I mean girls

like one nights stands too right? I mean they like sex as much as we do

right? surely, contrary to what feminists say, men aren't just a bunch of horny assholes. To god I ask, what is the moral, reasonable, ethical etc... way to pick up

chicks.. i mean women.













 
sorry that was poorly written, i guess im saying why do men get all this shit for having one night stands, when girls do the same shit.
 
i'm sorry but you make too many threads about bitches/men & mating of our species. talk about something else! please!
 
hahha.. so true.. like many dudes with social science degress I sit around and think to much about the world while it passes me by... contrary to stereotypes i dont smoke pot, but i do drink wine. I just got over a very long relationship and I guess relationships, girls and sex seem to be the only thing i can think about at the moment... along with skiing and making cash of course. I am just very interested in the whole dating process and what it all means... where is the line between being a creep and being a player.. maybe there is no line.. maybe just dont rape girls and you should be legit... probably to existential and putting way to much energy into all of this but u can't help what you are passionate about figuring out.. im just a nerd with a broken heart and a penis and im passionate about relationships and succubusses and creeper chrises.

my new theory.

just live a good life, ski a shit load, and dont let a succubus define who you are.. also carry a wooden spike in your pocket just incase a succubus comes into your life and tries to steal your soul and give it to satan.

 
i dont know many guys who get shit for having one night stands, in fact when i or one of my friends has a one night stand we are typically stoked on it
 
yeah i know in man world, a one night stand is like scoring a touch down.... you get mad props, but in girl life one night stands are usually met with things like...

oh my god becky, what happened last nigh?....

oh i got so drunk and gary took advantage of me.

oh god, what creep im so sorry. lets get a latte and talk about it more.

okay thanks.

i just think that is kind of bullshit...

mmmm..

there is a man, there is alcohol, and you are in room together... what the fuck did you think was going to happen?

a little game scrabble and hot tea? If did not want to have sex with the dude you should have never taken into your room..

i just feel frustrated when girls play guys out to be the pigs, when in reality it was their own lack of judgment.

 
women are more naturally selective in choosing partners because there is more risk involved for them. google the Coolidge effect. it made me understand why it is acceptable for men to have many partners.
 
Here's the deal with us girls:
1. If you're hawt and you're not expressing the fact that you really need to get laid tonight, you're more comfortable to talk with, and we get to know you better, thus building rapport and attraction.
2. If you're hawt and desperate and really going after it, it only works if we're drunk and really horny. Otherwise, NO.
3. If you're below a 7, you better have a great fucking personality, and be comfortable around us. That makes you ten times more attractive than that fucking creeper in the corner trying to get in with every piece of ass he sees. The difference between getting some and not getting some is a combination of relaxation and attractiveness.
Relaxation is easy, but the attractiveness is always different from one person to the next, and that's what makes things hard for people. Some people you're just not attracted to, though everyone else may like them, and they may like you.
So basically, be hot and get us drunk and ALWAYS BE DRUNK TO!.
 
somewhere between that line and the "I'm just a nerd with a broken heart and a penis" you creeped me out. Some thoughts are best left unspoken is my take on this thread.
 
this was my friends facebook status and its an extremely witty response to this phenomenon.

"I just had an argument with a girl I know.

She was saying how it's unfair that if a guy fucks a different girl

every week, he's a legend, but if a girl fucks just two guys in a year,

she's a slut. So in response I told her that if a key opens lots of

locks, then it's a master key. But if a lock is opened by lots of keys,

then it's a shitty lock. That shut her up."

 
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