Honestly. I have one single solitary thing on my "christmas list", and all that is, is seeing my family. It's so great when you are younger, gifts are amazing. However now, I've found a new meaning for holidays. My gift is my mother's love, my grandmother's love, my brother's love, the memory of my father's love, etc... I don't think its selfish for people to ask for things, I just think eventually everyone changes from the person who asks, into the person who asks how they can give. It's not a change that should happen at a specific time, or age... Just something that happens. I'm not a religious person by any means, but I have found a spiritual meaning in holidays, and that's family. Everyone, please just love those who love you, because life is too short to do otherwise.