I traded crowbar lenses with him and he said that he shipped his out, and it has been over two weeks and i have not recieved my lens. I will post and say it has been resolved if need be.
Ok, haha this is hilarious, i found his number on google (sketchy i know) and had my mom call it, his mom picked up and she had no idea, looks like im getting my lens back!
damn you really showed him! nothing says 'I'm a big boy' like running to mommy to deal with your problems... but the classy move would've been to brag about it.