Bringing home boys

steezelord420

steezelord420

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So I've never really dated the type of guy daddy would be proud to see his little girl with. They've always been on the bummier/dirtier side so I haven't really brought one home to meet the fam. My parents in general are pretty open minded and accepting but I still have this feeling that ma and pa wont like bae. Especially my dad. Like I said he's pretty accepting but he doesn't like anyone who doesn't ski race. Guess who I choose to date? Anyone who doesn't ski race. Have any of you experienced this issue? Or are you just badasses with chill parents that are ok with you dating a guy that may or may not be the biggest weed dealer in your area... Nah mean?
 
didn't you post somewhere recently about how you fell in love with some dopefiend who stole all your shit and ruined your life? This probably isn't a reoccurring trend, biggest weed dealer is pretty much the same as motivated and entrepreneurial

my mom has always been super tolerant of the shitty girls I bring home on occasion, although she was disappointed when I agreed that my instafamous catch was cute enough to overlook the complete stupidity

The most confusing thing is she wants absolutely no mention of my sex life but there is always a box of condoms in my bathroom vanity.
 
13602725:ghosthop said:
didn't you post somewhere recently about how you fell in love with some dopefiend who stole all your shit and ruined your life? This probably isn't a reoccurring trend, biggest weed dealer is pretty much the same as motivated and entrepreneurial

my mom has always been super tolerant of the shitty girls I bring home on occasion, although she was disappointed when I agreed that my instafamous catch was cute enough to overlook the complete stupidity

The most confusing thing is she wants absolutely no mention of my sex life but there is always a box of condoms in my bathroom vanity.
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lmao
 
The biggest problem in your love life is the fact he doesnt ski race? Lol is this what HS/MS has come to nowdays.

Richwhitepeopleproblems
 
13602725:ghosthop said:
didn't you post somewhere recently about how you fell in love with some dopefiend who stole all your shit and ruined your life? This probably isn't a reoccurring trend, biggest weed dealer is pretty much the same as motivated and entrepreneurial

my mom has always been super tolerant of the shitty girls I bring home on occasion, although she was disappointed when I agreed that my instafamous catch was cute enough to overlook the complete stupidity

The most confusing thing is she wants absolutely no mention of my sex life but there is always a box of condoms in my bathroom vanity.
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Tha was a year ago. He did crack. Way different.
 
13602732:japanada said:
The biggest problem in your love life is the fact he doesnt ski race? Lol is this what HS/MS has come to nowdays.

Richwhitepeopleproblems
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For real.

How old are you? If you aren't comfortable bringing him home he probably isn't marriage worthy...so why are you dating him? Unless you are just looking to fuck for a while...or you're in highschool.

If the only reason your dad wouldn't approve of him is because he doesn't race...then he definitely doesnt seem like he is too open minded. Quite the opposite actually.
 
HEY I RESPONDED IN LADY GABBER.

but seriously, if your dad has a fixation on ski racing ell him to get off to julia mancusso before he meets your boy & show him lots of cool park videos to get his hype up.

Racing doesn't define personalities.
 
13602764:zee.wench said:
Tha was a year ago. He did crack. Way different.
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the crackhead personality trait wasn't some sort of red flag?

my honest dude advice is there is generally a reason a person chooses to make money by selling drugs as opposed to an alternative means of employment. But giving some random girl boy advice on the internet is less efficient than literally banging my head against the wall.

If you're ever in Bozeman I would be happy to show you an excellent evening, maybe you even look the same as your profile picture irl
 
13602768:Profahoben_212 said:
For real.

How old are you? If you aren't comfortable bringing him home he probably isn't marriage worthy...so why are you dating him? Unless you are just looking to fuck for a while...or you're in highschool.

If the only reason your dad wouldn't approve of him is because he doesn't race...then he definitely doesnt seem like he is too open minded. Quite the opposite actually.
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I understand what type of skier you are shouldn't define your personality and I shouldn't have used that generalization. It's just the lifestyle my dad is most comfotable with. Hes an older dude so he is a little more biased towards the other ends of the spectrum. I also disagree with the fact that I should only date based on marriage. I am also not looking to just "fuck" either.

With this thread being accidentaly posted in this forum I have come to the realization that if I'm happy It really doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. Thanks guys.

And I've also realized that I meant to say he LOOKS like he could be the biggest weed dealer in the area. Pretty sure he isn't... At least I hope he isnt.
 
13602868:zee.wench said:
I understand what type of skier you are shouldn't define your personality and I shouldn't have used that generalization. It's just the lifestyle my dad is most comfotable with. Hes an older dude so he is a little more biased towards the other ends of the spectrum. I also disagree with the fact that I should only date based on marriage. I am also not looking to just "fuck" either.

With this thread being accidentaly posted in this forum I have come to the realization that if I'm happy It really doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. Thanks guys.

And I've also realized that I meant to say he LOOKS like he could be the biggest weed dealer in the area. Pretty sure he isn't... At least I hope he isnt.
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Hey of he makes you happy....then it's okay. Your parents will hopefully see that he makes you happy.

You should probably find out details like if he deals weed before getting too invested though hahahaha
 
13602908:Profahoben_212 said:
Hey of he makes you happy....then it's okay. Your parents will hopefully see that he makes you happy.

You should probably find out details like if he deals weed before getting too invested though hahahaha
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I was kidding haha. He definately doesnt.
 
uh yes actually. If the guy isn't a total idiot he'll be able to meet your dad without making an absolute joke out of himself.

That being said I was one of two guys who dated a girl who only dates guys who play sports, who has a dad and two brothers who play sports and are not small, quiet, kind people. I was terrified but remind him to make eye contact and shit and he'll be fine.
 
If you have to ask questions like these you should just be banging this guy once or twice a week and holding out to 'date' someone better.

I'd go for best of both worlds stay single and keep looking for a functioning adult/young adult but hang out and hook up with whoever this dude is until you do.

GL

I'd try and start hanging out at other places and with other people btw if the guys you are meeting are into crack or too sketchy to introduce to your parents.
 
13602790:safarisam said:
Racing doesn't define personalities.
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Neither does skiing. It's a nice bonus, but OP should really branch out. Sound like she's limiting herself to pretty small groups of guys if you compare it to all the other options out there.

Skiing can be a nice bonus in a partner, but you should be fine with it not being something you have in common.
 
13603191:Byron_tha_gr8 said:
Neither does skiing. It's a nice bonus, but OP should really branch out. Sound like she's limiting herself to pretty small groups of guys if you compare it to all the other options out there.

Skiing can be a nice bonus in a partner, but you should be fine with it not being something you have in common.
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Its January this advice isn't really suitable right now. Maybe April-November that works.

OP can just embrace her thing for bad boys she just has to realize her parents will hate the dude and conjugal visits and having a dude in jail depending on and expecting shit from you are likely in her future.

I dated a girl who had an ex in jail and dumped her ass and unfriended her on FB and ignored all her calls because she went to visit him. She was warned not to.
 
13603212:PeppermillReno said:
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I dated a girl who had an ex in jail and dumped her ass and unfriended her on FB and ignored all her calls because she went to visit him. She was warned not to.
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what a great boyfriend.
 
13604013:onLINE said:
Clean yourself up OP.
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13602868:zee.wench said:
I understand what type of skier you are shouldn't define your personality and I shouldn't have used that generalization. It's just the lifestyle my dad is most comfotable with. Hes an older dude so he is a little more biased towards the other ends of the spectrum. I also disagree with the fact that I should only date based on marriage. I am also not looking to just "fuck" either.

With this thread being accidentaly posted in this forum I have come to the realization that if I'm happy It really doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. Thanks guys.

And I've also realized that I meant to say he LOOKS like he could be the biggest weed dealer in the area. Pretty sure he isn't... At least I hope he isnt.
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A couple things:

(1) Why did you quote "fuck"?

(2) What makes someone look like a weed dealer? Everyone knows the best dealers don't dabble in their own product

(3) Found a pic of your dad:

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You sound like that stupid chick who dated a guy named "WarMachine" and then was surprised when he beat the shit out of her.
 
I am too experienced in the ways of dating people that parents wouldn't approve of. An expert even. And my expert advice is, if there's a good reason that your parents wouldn't like the person (besides the bullshit reason that "he doesn't run gates so my dad won't like him") then you probably shouldn't date that person.

Most parents are extremely good at judging personalities and wanting the best for their children even if you don't want to believe it because you think that the biggest pot dealer in your high school would make a good long term significant other. They don't. If there's a good reason to not bring someone home to your parents there's a good reason not to date them. Or more likely in this case, hold their hand during recess.
 
Alright, here's what you're going to get your bloke to do.

1. Make him buy a nice sixer of beer.

2. As soon as you get in the door get him to say "Hi Mr and Mrs So-and-so, I've heard so many nice things about you. Lovely to meet you"

3. That *should* get your fella to first-name basis with the old man. Then make him offer one of those nice beers to the old man.

4. They'll begin to get matey. Then everything's good. Get Dad onside, then smooth sailing.

Seriously all of my previous Missus' folks love me. And I look like a dirtbag.
 
I have been told I look like a woman by my girls grandparents and how my hair is untrimmed and way too long and how I'm way too old for her (3 years) but I give zero fucks about what they say because they aren't really gona do much and I personally think its funny. A TON of people think I do a lots of drugs and smoke and shit but I don't (anymore) and I mean, yea this dude might get some weird looks, but if he isn't a straight up goon, then you will be fine cuz I seriously doubt your dad will kick this dude out and tell him hes a scrub to his face.

Besides, if you are in HS (same), then it isnt that hard to find a new man. Open up your options because theres tons of dudes who are rad, but dont necessarily race or even ski.

Everything I have said is just repeating what is in this thread, so if you came here for advice, I think you found your answer.

Also, Pics of a comparison of this dude because if he looks like a hippy, then I personally dont feel like it will be that bad. If he looks like a skinhead who has tattoo sleeves and smells like stale cigs, I would be a little more worried.

GL OP
 
13604086:Deforestation said:
(2) What makes someone look like a weed dealer? Everyone knows the best dealers don't dabble in their own product
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From my experience, most drug dealers aren't exactly great at what they do.

13604279:connecticunt said:
I am too experienced in the ways of dating people that parents wouldn't approve of. An expert even. And my expert advice is, if there's a good reason that your parents wouldn't like the person (besides the bullshit reason that "he doesn't run gates so my dad won't like him") then you probably shouldn't date that person.

Most parents are extremely good at judging personalities and wanting the best for their children even if you don't want to believe it because you think that the biggest pot dealer in your high school would make a good long term significant other. They don't. If there's a good reason to not bring someone home to your parents there's a good reason not to date them. Or more likely in this case, hold their hand during recess.
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This. You're clearly young and stupid, op, and think your parents just want to ruin your life and that you're far wiser than them with more life experience. But you're not. You're a dumb little shit who probably struggles with telling the difference between your ear and your asshole.

Since you're young and stupid I'm going to say this once and only once, so listen good. Your parents want what's best for you. If they disapprove of the type of guy you usually date, there's a good reason for it, and if this crackhead stealing your shit story is true, it sounds like they're right. So listen to them. You'll look back on this in 5 years and think to yourself "goddamn what a stupid little asshole I was for dating those guys, why didn't I just listen to my folks?"

I guarantee it.
 
13604825:Bogs said:
From my experience, most drug dealers aren't exactly great at what they do.

This. You're clearly young and stupid, op, and think your parents just want to ruin your life and that you're far wiser than them with more life experience. But you're not. You're a dumb little shit who probably struggles with telling the difference between your ear and your asshole.

Since you're young and stupid I'm going to say this once and only once, so listen good. Your parents want what's best for you. If they disapprove of the type of guy you usually date, there's a good reason for it, and if this crackhead stealing your shit story is true, it sounds like they're right. So listen to them. You'll look back on this in 5 years and think to yourself "goddamn what a stupid little asshole I was for dating those guys, why didn't I just listen to my folks?"

I guarantee it.
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Somebody skipped Broads 101.

Wannahood girls that think it's cool to fuck their lives up can't get off to a guy their dad likes tho. It just isn't a stupid enough thing to do.

Look, if you aren't making your dad wish he was dead, you aren't trying hard enough to fuck your life up to even be considered living. Might as well go read the bible and hope for a churchgasm.
 
13604831:Huck_Norris said:
Somebody skipped Broads 101.
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Well you're not wrong there.

I guess I'm past adhering to the old, romanticized notion of "if you're not intentionally fucking up your life you aren't having fun or living" bullshit.
 
13605104:Bogs said:
Well you're not wrong there.

I guess I'm past adhering to the old, romanticized notion of "if you're not intentionally fucking up your life you aren't having fun or living" bullshit.
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The fact that you don't get it bodes well for your future fwiw.
 
13605117:Huck_Norris said:
The fact that you don't get it bodes well for your future fwiw.
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I didn't say I don't get it, I said I'm past it. I got it at one point, but then grew up and realized how stupid I was for thinking that way. Which is what I'm trying to tell op.
 
13604825:Bogs said:
From my experience, most drug dealers aren't exactly great at what they do.

This. You're clearly young and stupid, op, and think your parents just want to ruin your life and that you're far wiser than them with more life experience. But you're not. You're a dumb little shit who probably struggles with telling the difference between your ear and your asshole.

Since you're young and stupid I'm going to say this once and only once, so listen good. Your parents want what's best for you. If they disapprove of the type of guy you usually date, there's a good reason for it, and if this crackhead stealing your shit story is true, it sounds like they're right. So listen to them. You'll look back on this in 5 years and think to yourself "goddamn what a stupid little asshole I was for dating those guys, why didn't I just listen to my folks?"

I guarantee it.
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Wowch. You really stuck it to me huh? This isn't about me being a rebellious fucktard who doesnt want to listen to my parents. I'm way past that. I realized a long ass time ago that my parents know whats best for me, and they think whats best for me is what makes me happy. I might have dated one or two not so great guys but thats in the past and yes, I do look back and realize I probably could've made a better decision. I made a mistake. I'm human. Whoops.
 
13605494:zee.wench said:
Wowch. You really stuck it to me huh? This isn't about me being a rebellious fucktard who doesnt want to listen to my parents. I'm way past that. I realized a long ass time ago that my parents know whats best for me, and they think whats best for me is what makes me happy. I might have dated one or two not so great guys but thats in the past and yes, I do look back and realize I probably could've made a better decision. I made a mistake. I'm human. Whoops.
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Don't apologize.

Just play the field and have a couple hoodlums your messing with instead of locking yourself down with one of them thats a bad look and lowers your 'stock.' Your the lady shits on your terms if the guy doesn't like it he can jerk off to porn instead of getting booty.
 
I don't sell crack but Sdrvper can vouch for me that I'm a hard 8, 9 with my shirt off, 10 if I did my eyebrows.

Just kidding I also sell crack .
 
Its hilarious, but my mom tends to go nuts when I get into a relationship with a girl. She's just as bad as a protective daddy. She tries to put ideas in my head, tries to second guess the legibility of the relationship, basically the mind games.

Ive decided to move away and never mention a love life.
 
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