i understand that difference, but i dont see why it is so important to be super sensitive to someone who ive never met. saying that he crashed into a lumberjack or skied into a saw doesnt do any harm. its situational humor and doesnt actually attack the victim and shouldnt, god forbid, hurt his feelings. i appreciate that its not as nice of a thing to say, but there is no rule on NS against being sarcastic. like i said, i get that it isnt the nicest thing to say about his situation, but strictly in my opinion it shouldnt be ban worthy.