best way to dump a guy

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1080chick

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fuck...i've been goin out w/ this guy for 2 days and he's starting to piss the fuck outta me. i wanna dump him cuz i like this other guy but thatz kinda bad to dump someone and go out w/ someone else like...right after. so how should i dump him? phone...e-mail....in person....have a friend do it? and what should i say. cuz he's hella annoying

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~Hot Tamalia :o)
 
do not have a friend do it!!!! go up to him and say 'this isn't working' but give him some clue first so it's not a shock.

'Never underestimate the power of the handicapped'
 
don't be afraid to do it in person...people who get thier frinds to do it seem really immature to me

Mauii - Ontarian Jibber

Call me Mike!
 
Yeah the friend thing sucks...It is 10x worse beacuse they think your scared or something and will make him hate you more. Just talk to him once and tell him how you feel and why the relationship isn't working out.

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you have only been dating for 2 days?! Who the fuck cares...just don't call him back. This is assuming you are older and not in school with him...if so, just tell him you that things are working for YOU, don't make shit up just tell him

--- Endless Winter ---

>Tim
 
DO IT IN PERSON. Definateyl do not get a friend to do it...because it will make him hate you...and probalby anyone who hears about it too. Becasue thats hella weak. I lost all respect for my buddies gf in the begining of high school when she did that. And don't do it online or on the phone if you can help it. JUst be honest and do it in person.

Matt

***Founder of the Dancing Penguin Revolution :)***

'hey, your skis go both ways. Wait, you have bi-sexual skis!' - Said to Matt Harvey by a 50 year old ski instructor

~~Phunkin' Phatt Phreerider~~

 
its funny cus he is like 4 foot 10 or so, and has the smalles hands and feet i have ever seen, not to mention webbed fingers a toes. his fingers are half the size of hime, he has baby hands, everything about him is small. hah you should be like your to small for me.

~Tom
 
this sounds pretty damned middle school to me

'He got fired? What did he do?'

'He jumped off of the roof again'
 
tom how would you know everythign is small about him haha jk, but yea really you have been going out 2 days whats teh big deal, hah write him an email thats pretty bad

I like skiing
 
dont do it over the phone or have a friend do it, so fuckin stupid, just in person tell him why it aint workin for ya

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contract...

Homer's Brain: Why is Mr. Burns being so nice to me?

Burns: ...and if you scratch my back, I'll scratch yours...

Homer's Brain: Wait a minute, is he coming onto me?

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Homer's Brain: Oh my God! He IS coming onto me!'

Burns: After all, negotiations make strange bed-fellows.

Homer's Brain: (Screams)

Homer: Sorry Mr. Burns, but I don't go in for these backdoor shenanigans. Sure

I'm flattered, maybe even a little curious, but the answer is no!
 
The funniest way would be to walk up to him looking all pissed off and when you get to him, slap him in the face and scream at him, 'YOU FUCKING BASTARD! HOW COULD YOU!?!?!?!?!?!?' Then storm off. It will just confuse the hell out of him and I'll laugh and laugh...

 
yeah this whole thing sounds like its a middle school relationship.

the same exact thing happened to me, the girl was the most immature stupid girl ive ever met, you dont go out with a guy for two days and then decide you like someone else. sorry but i just think ur situation is pretty immature

*leader of the skiing with your pants down revolution*
 
Just don't play games or soften it or anything. Just tell the truth. I hate it when people sugarcoat shit.

'Cure blindness with a whore's spittle.' -Jim Morrison
 
sorry just a quick question? how old are you? not to be rude, but girl u gotta grow up. getting a friend,the net, or phone to use as a breakup. is soo childish and really dumb. unless this guy will kill you or beat the shit out of u . you should never use them... You have to tell them straight up.. but be sure you want to do it. because U may regret it afterwards

I like my bird! - Dave Pauls
 
Ya getting dumped over the net really sux, just dump him in person, don't sugar coat it or anything. If you're going to dump him it damn well better be in person

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The morning after you and a babe who was formerly 'just a friend' have carnal, drunken monkey sex, the fact that you're feeling weird and guilty is NO reason not to nail her again before the discussion about what a big mistake it was.

 
biach, you're the one who needs to grow up if you is clownin on my homegirl!

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you're wrong
 
This spells immaturity. The first hint, are the possibilities ofletting him down. No offense, but 2 DAYS?? Dude, just walk up and be like, hey listen, this isn't going anywhere. He'll get over it, hell he'll forget about it in a week.

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**Love ya Lacey**
 
All I read in this thread was 'I have been going out woth this guy for 2 days' and thats all I needed to make myself stop reading.

 
can 2 days really be considered going out?

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Go from my personal point of view, get an ugly girl to marry you.

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- My Gym Teacher
 
Whoa, Jr High all over again! And you are NOT going out with him ,if you've only been 'going out' for 2 days.

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hah yeah, i never use the term 'going out' anymore, except if im going on a date or something. i hate when ppl say, yeah were going out, yet they sit around. its just a public statement to everyone else that they like each other, which is pretty stupid. if you wanna be with someone, go out on some dates with them and kiss them or fuck them or whatever, that kinda locks up the relationship, and just say we're together, he/she is my boy/girlfriend. I hate when 13 year old kids say their going out with whoever and all they do is talk on the phone and go to the movies to make out. get a real relationship, jeez

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seth
 
that's all that kids are supposed to be doing at 13 . . . at least that's what I think, you think they should be doing more?

Joe: 'Red, do something with your life'

Red: 'I do. I smoke weed all the time. And I took a shower earlier. What am I? A fucking superhero? That's plenty.'
 
no kids at 13 should be frolicking around in their backyard on the swings or something, i know too many girls that are really screwed up just because they decided to do whatever they wanted to when they were too young

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seth
 
IN PERSON! never do it by e-mail or have a friend tell them. I have to say that I don't like the fact that you're dumping him after two days, if you were officially dating.

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'I got cooties, yo! I got cooties yo! I got cooties from Rudy's big old booty, yo!' Sifl and Olly
 
If it's only been two days, don't worry about hurting the guy's feelings.

'Uh, What is he doing?'

'What does it look like he's doing?'

'Well should he be doing that?'

'I dunno, should he?' - Late night CBC TV.
 
If a girl ever dumped me by mail or by phone I'd spread the word all over campus about how much her pussy stinks. God damn have a little respect for yourself

'My advice to you is to start drinking heavily' -Animal House
 
i say make him hate you, or at least dislike you. thats way he's not hurt. and still 2 days isnt much (and im sure its over by the time i post this.)

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save a tree! eat a beaver.
 
no, a girl dumped me after 2 days, back in the day....

I would say screw girls that dump their 'boyfriends' after two days. if you really want to dump him tell him that two days doesnt really mean anything and you dont love him, it was all lust that somehow went to someone else. he'll get over that pretty quickly

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seth
 
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