being hard to get

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margerita

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ok. so that nice guy thread seemed to get a lot of posts so I figured I have a few questions myself . ok first it says Im a guy. but Im a girl.

anyway since skier guys seem to be such nice good guys, and hot, maybe u can just help me out a bit or anybody that has random girl/guy questions. k so like.. haha i have a lot. I have a friend, not a very good friend but just a guy friend that is really hot and I would really be interested to fuck around with but Im not really intersted in him. not that there's anything wrong with him. it's just im just not. now the other night I totally blew off any attempts he made to get with me. for the night because im proabably scared because it's so much easier just to be friends and i don't wanna deal with the after stuff right now especially if im not really interested in him. i like him but i just thought it would be easier to say no for the night thiking it would also make me seem hard to get until i work up the guts to go for it. but now. my question is . i was pretty straight forward with the rejection i was just like flirting while making it pretty clear i was not going to do anything with him but that he might have better luck another night. are guys turned off by a girl that plays too hard to get? i mean. even if he's no seriously interested in me. because i dont think he is. please hotties. help me out

 
a little goofy flirtings ok, but girls who flirt hardcore and dont put out are called teases and i dunno about other guys but i hate it

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Dan Maguire

Yankees Suck

'...all fled before his face. All save one. There waiting, silent

and still in the space before the gate, sat Gandalf upon Shadowfax.'

'It's not the eastern shore that worries me. A shadow and a threat has been growing in my mind. Something draws near, I can feel it.'

How many snowboarders does it take to screw in a lightbulb?

10, 1 to do it, and 9 to say 'I can do that.'

'Dude, we're sick. He's pretty sick, but his muscles aren't as big as mine, so you know.'-CR Johnson
 
yeah, krongos is right. you cant flirt with him all night then blow him off

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honestly, i dont know why but what u just said would probably appeal to him more now. it does for me. the chick i wanted was flirting with me heaps on friday but not really letting me get close at all, and it just made me want her more. sounds like the same sorta situation that your in, only from the other side

'They call them fingers but ive never seen 'em fing......... oh, there they go' Otto in the stoner episode

'Well 10 beers, 20 minutes, and 30 dollars later, im parking the beef bus in tuna town, if ya know what i mean'
 
thats a lot to read, but playing hard to get is only cool for so long, and only if you know youll be rewarded at the end of it all... so dont drag it on, thats my advice

stick around and be no clown just keep on rockin' to the A-l sound

 
yeah, if ya do it for too long it would prob backfire

'They call them fingers but ive never seen 'em fing......... oh, there they go' Otto in the stoner episode

'Well 10 beers, 20 minutes, and 30 dollars later, im parking the beef bus in tuna town, if ya know what i mean'
 
don't play around... tell himthe truth. hard to get only works if the person isn't putting moves on you.

-Pat

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i hate you.

open up and just funkn give er. be that little slut you always should have been...

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oh.thanks loads guys. I mean im not a huge tease and I dont usually hook up with someone if im not interested. therefore it doesnt happen a lot i politly yet cutely decline. but i think its time i go for it for once and i was just wondering what he thought about me after the night. I hope it works out like what said but i know i shouldnt flirt too much while rejecting him

 
what has this site turned into? freaking love advice for skiers?

jk i don't care

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do any of us really have sex like we all say we do???? i dont think so

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ya. well i guess we all need it. plus skiers are cool guys. and nice. as shown in the nice guy thread its nice to have some good honest non-loser advice

 
i dont have sex and i dont day that i do, advice anyone (this is the place to ask aint it?)?

'They call them fingers but ive never seen 'em fing......... oh, there they go' Otto in the stoner episode

'Well 10 beers, 20 minutes, and 30 dollars later, im parking the beef bus in tuna town, if ya know what i mean'
 
oh ya guys but like. i said no in a flirty way so i wasn't straight forward flirting with him. to the point where im not sure he thinks i like him. quote of his 'you wanna do it you just don't know it yet' i mean. that makes him sound well just scumy but he is a really nice guy. so lets say i was pretty convincing with the fact that nothing was gunna happen between us, do u think he just thinks im prude and too hard to get?

 
well i have sex all the time because ive been with my gf for over 2 years so its a necessity

President of the OTC!

Everybody, Lateralis drinks alcohol and smokes marijuana cigarettes. You're burned now, Lateralis! - halo

'ive been shavin since i was in 5th grade, yea the girls made fun of me then, but now they grovel at my feet just to pet me' - Alex aka Ds91260

**NEWSCHOOL UNDERGROUND**
 
yes good place to ask. and yes. i wouldn't of had sex with him. and didn't mean to imply that i would. that's definalty of the 'right guy'

 
if he has somethin for you, one rejection won't stop him from hooking up, but it might've detered anythoughts of a relationship...which ism good for you.. and about CJ, he's actually gay. so don't worry about him.

-Pat

WBP|films

SRMC

SFHNC

EMTAE
 
im fucking tured off by that stupid hard to get shit...first thing that says to me is 'this girl isnt going to do anything with me if i get her'

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ya dont be a bitch, wair all button up clothes next time you see him, and rip them off and spread your legs... fucking hard to get, what is this 2cnd grade shit

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NH_Line:ya oakleys skis are no rumor!!!!!!!!! offffff the hook, the are coming out with the Osama Pros, and t-hall is leaving Armada to ride them, they also will come with a free bling bling necklace

ArmadaFreerider8:Where can you get a pic of the new oakley skis?

Ds91260: i already got my osama pros, i stole them from a cave in afganistan

ArmadaFreerider8: Why would tanner hall leave armada after he just helped start it
 
Actually Jay, the plural of Jedi is Jedi. Who's playing mind games now?

And just come straight out with it. No fucking around with hidden signals.

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but i dont want to play around . i just didn't get up the guts to go for it because i didnt feel like i could deal 'whatever happens next' at that point. so i was procrastinating a little i guess.

 
this works,

I like flipping it on the girls, if you play a little hard to get, they try harder to get your attention, then it fucks with there heads,

then when they put it out, you go in, Unless you thought shes nasty to begin with,

'I'm still Ugly'
 
his a guy, he might just wanna have sum fun cuz he thinks your hot.. who knows.. but if he actully likes u, i woundnt fewl around with him if your gonna not like him back cuz thats just harsh...

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THE POWER IS YOURS

Our world is in peril. Gaia, the Spirit of the Earth, can no longer stand the terrible destruction plagueing our planet. She sends five magic rings to five special young people: Kwame, from Africa, with the power of Earth. From North America, Wheeler, with the power of Fire. From Eastern Europe, Linka, with the power of Wind. From Asia, Gi, with the power of Water. And from South America, Ma-Ti, with the power of Heart. When the five powers combine, they summon Earth's greatest champion, Captain Planet!

 
yup. but thats what i mean. i dont think he really likes me. i think he's just like me. wants to hook up. but i get the feeling he hooks up with people more casually then me. Im not tough to beat

 
awww.. u cant loook down on your self.. keep that confidence up, that what we like.. oh and chicks that make the 1st move rock.. just be like 'im realy into u, i dont want a realtion ship but id really like to fuel arounf with u' or sumthin then start making out, and he will be like helll ya, i didnt do shit, this chick rocks

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THE POWER IS YOURS

Our world is in peril. Gaia, the Spirit of the Earth, can no longer stand the terrible destruction plagueing our planet. She sends five magic rings to five special young people: Kwame, from Africa, with the power of Earth. From North America, Wheeler, with the power of Fire. From Eastern Europe, Linka, with the power of Wind. From Asia, Gi, with the power of Water. And from South America, Ma-Ti, with the power of Heart. When the five powers combine, they summon Earth's greatest champion, Captain Planet!

 
^dumbest post ever

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Dan Maguire

Yankees Suck

'...all fled before his face. All save one. There waiting, silent

and still in the space before the gate, sat Gandalf upon Shadowfax.'

'It's not the eastern shore that worries me. A shadow and a threat has been growing in my mind. Something draws near, I can feel it.'

How many snowboarders does it take to screw in a lightbulb?

10, 1 to do it, and 9 to say 'I can do that.'

'Dude, we're sick. He's pretty sick, but his muscles aren't as big as mine, so you know.'-CR Johnson
 
^ i think he ment b-wald

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THE POWER IS YOURS

Our world is in peril. Gaia, the Spirit of the Earth, can no longer stand the terrible destruction plagueing our planet. She sends five magic rings to five special young people: Kwame, from Africa, with the power of Earth. From North America, Wheeler, with the power of Fire. From Eastern Europe, Linka, with the power of Wind. From Asia, Gi, with the power of Water. And from South America, Ma-Ti, with the power of Heart. When the five powers combine, they summon Earth's greatest champion, Captain Planet!

 
i was talking about the one above neil

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Dan Maguire

Yankees Suck

'...all fled before his face. All save one. There waiting, silent

and still in the space before the gate, sat Gandalf upon Shadowfax.'

'It's not the eastern shore that worries me. A shadow and a threat has been growing in my mind. Something draws near, I can feel it.'

How many snowboarders does it take to screw in a lightbulb?

10, 1 to do it, and 9 to say 'I can do that.'

'Dude, we're sick. He's pretty sick, but his muscles aren't as big as mine, so you know.'-CR Johnson
 
ya well im not shy about it.if i like someone they know it. n Im a flirty kid i guess also..seem confident maybe a little more so then i am. except when it comes to hooking up. i chicken out. ALL the time. so i don't let it continue. id hate to cause any drama or lose a friend so i just. dont. plain and simple but thanks neil it would seem more like me to make the first move except. i dont know i work with him and i know we would never have a relationship or anything and i dont want him to think i think much more of it then he does. but. then again hes hot and nice and the type of guy im attracted too im just. not.

 
ok. not not attracted just not interested in having a relationship with. mind u. i dont think i want to have a relationship with anyone right now. but thats only because im also scared of commitment.

 
fuckin chicks, they are so confusing, so hes the kind of guy you would like but you dont??? what the hell at least with guys its all or nothing, im sorry but i just get really confused by female behavior

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Dan Maguire

Yankees Suck

'...all fled before his face. All save one. There waiting, silent

and still in the space before the gate, sat Gandalf upon Shadowfax.'

'It's not the eastern shore that worries me. A shadow and a threat has been growing in my mind. Something draws near, I can feel it.'

How many snowboarders does it take to screw in a lightbulb?

10, 1 to do it, and 9 to say 'I can do that.'

'Dude, we're sick. He's pretty sick, but his muscles aren't as big as mine, so you know.'-CR Johnson
 
yup. i dont understand us anyway. well ya. im attracted to him. physically i guess and he's a really great guy and hes really hot. and im picky so that means a lot to find a good guy but its like im not feeling it

 
lol did u have a diffrent user name before, cuz like u just started posting, and u said uv been readin the nice guy thread, plus u made your self quite at home already

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THE POWER IS YOURS

Our world is in peril. Gaia, the Spirit of the Earth, can no longer stand the terrible destruction plagueing our planet. She sends five magic rings to five special young people: Kwame, from Africa, with the power of Earth. From North America, Wheeler, with the power of Fire. From Eastern Europe, Linka, with the power of Wind. From Asia, Gi, with the power of Water. And from South America, Ma-Ti, with the power of Heart. When the five powers combine, they summon Earth's greatest champion, Captain Planet!

 
this is what u should be saying to him right now 'can i touch it?....' with a innocent face and all that shit, no way hell say no, and if he does hes gayer than liberache

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Member of the 'lets help Sam loose some weight so he can possibly get a girl' Club.

Bonnnnnnnnnnnnnggggg
 
im so smart

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THE POWER IS YOURS

Our world is in peril. Gaia, the Spirit of the Earth, can no longer stand the terrible destruction plagueing our planet. She sends five magic rings to five special young people: Kwame, from Africa, with the power of Earth. From North America, Wheeler, with the power of Fire. From Eastern Europe, Linka, with the power of Wind. From Asia, Gi, with the power of Water. And from South America, Ma-Ti, with the power of Heart. When the five powers combine, they summon Earth's greatest champion, Captain Planet!

 
yea, chicks that make the first move rocks, that's how i met my girlfriend. hard to get is not a good move if you wanted something to happen between you two, the guy might still try to hook up with you, but his attitude with it might changed.

yea this site is changing into a love-problem solving-site, but it's offseason for a lot of us and we need something to do.

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It's a man obligation, to stick his boneration, into a woman seperation. -Eric Cartman
 
watch she takes are advice and screws him or suttin and she gets pregnant o boy that would be hilarous

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NH_Line:ya oakleys skis are no rumor!!!!!!!!! offffff the hook, the are coming out with the Osama Pros, and t-hall is leaving Armada to ride them, they also will come with a free bling bling necklace

ArmadaFreerider8:Where can you get a pic of the new oakley skis?

Ds91260: i already got my osama pros, i stole them from a cave in afganistan

ArmadaFreerider8: Why would tanner hall leave armada after he just helped start it
 
^ baha. but yeah take off the chastity belt. shit or get off the pot. put out or get out. dont flirt then reject- flirt, shag THEN reject. Then its like in American Pie: he'll wake up be like 'I got used for sex... sweet!'

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'Your mom has a nasty gouge.'

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here's one thing, i dont like dating sluts, or anybody easy to get, anymore anyways. I'm not a virgin, and pretty much done everything with a girl, so i have the time to focus all my efforts trying to get a girl to like me. I have no more need for sluts, plus being hard to get never gets boring.

'when i first heard them, i was like 'oh my dad''-jesus

I think i'm going crazy...

 
seriosly just bang him unprotected and get pregnant then show us pictures of you pregnant hahhahaha

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NH_Line:ya oakleys skis are no rumor!!!!!!!!! offffff the hook, the are coming out with the Osama Pros, and t-hall is leaving Armada to ride them, they also will come with a free bling bling necklace

ArmadaFreerider8:Where can you get a pic of the new oakley skis?

Ds91260: i already got my osama pros, i stole them from a cave in afganistan

ArmadaFreerider8: Why would tanner hall leave armada after he just helped start it
 
yea, real 'good' advice you are giving.

hard to get doesn't get boring but to tell the difference between hard to get or rejection is a different story.

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Not metaphorically, not symbolically, but in every minute of every day we, along with the rest of the world, create the world.

Member of the 'lets help Sam loose some weight so he can possibly get a girl' Club.

It's a man obligation, to stick his boneration, into a woman seperation. -Eric Cartman
 
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