Becoming More Aggressive

n.i.c.k.

n.i.c.k.

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To give you a little background, im 17 and a senior in high school.

In the past week or two ive almost gotten in 3 different fights for completely different and bull shit reasons. But in the normal shit that goes on before a fight, i dont feel how i should to be able to really fight a good fight. Sounds wicked stupid i know, but i cant seem to get mad. My dad for example and a lot of my friends have really bad tempers and get mad really easily which results in breaking things (in my dads case) and fighting (in my friends' case.) Its really getting annoying to me how i feel like i have a lack of anger out of all my emotions. Basically what im trying to say is im pretty much a pussy when it comes to fighting. I hate fighting and im just a really chill kid, but sometimes you have to fight just to defend yourself or whatever. So what im asking here is if anyone knows how to get mad on command. Not just act mad and act tough, but actually get legitimately mad. I have no temper and some might think its a good thing, but it can be really hindering in some situations. Anyone?
 
why fight? 80% of the time it can be resolved without one. all fighting does is make both people look like assholes.
 
He's not saying he wants to get into a fight. He just wants to be able to if the situation arises.
 
oh..well i guess just punch the person in the face. I dont think you can just become angry. although for some reason if i get hit in the head with something, anything, i just get super fucking pissed and i dont know why.
 
here. use this.

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doesn't sound like your not aggressive if your getting into fights. Who starts the fights, and what are the results? Maybe getting some help.
 
you really dont need to fight. im 17, never been in a fight, never had a situation that i needed to. i just really dont care about a lot of the things some people get angry about.
 
actually you are probably lucky. if you are saying you wanna get mad incase you get in a fight that is. getting mad while fighting is probably the worst thing you can do, you dont think things out right and if you fight someone who is decent youll get your ass knocked out. so dont worry about not getting mad or whatever, its probably good in this case...
 
Let the kid take a first hit on you. Then you get mad. But that dude is right, keeping a calm head will help you win, just keep aggressive but calm and collected.
 
I think i know what you're talking about and i'm the same way. i've never gotten angry enough to actually fight someone. i'd say if you've never gotten angry than the situation that would make you angry hasn't happened yet. i'd be willing to say that if you actually were threatened by someone and had to fight them you'd probably get angry.
 
i get really mad over little things, such as when my pen runs out of ink or my printer doesnt work or i spill milk on the floor
 
dont beat it for like 7 days, you build up more testostorone and you'll become more agressive. im serious
 
umm I am pretty sure as soon as u get hit and get hurt you will get pretty mad.

staying calm is great and all, but in a fight anger > calm > nervous. nervous is the worst state to be in. anger is the best cause you will be the aggressor, its always good to be the person controlling things in a fight. make it so the other guy is reacting to you, and never give an opening.

anger makes u way stronger and more tolerant to pain. its just the best thing to have in a fight, if all u can think about is bashing someones face you can take a lot of punishment to achieve that goal.

just to add, I hate fighting. I just tell people they are right and walk away. i dont mind losing face, cause if someone wants to fight me they are always a tool and anyone witnessing it knows it.
 
imagine the kid bringing your mom out for a lovely evening and not calling her the next day! thatll get you angry
 
lol @ BAM dead on the floor

just keep your cool, and walk away if you have too, and get friends that will have your back if there ever is a fight
 
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i win.

i actually know what you mean about not getting mad enough to really feel like fighting. all i've got is just once someone really does something offensive enough to you, you'll pop and kill em.
 
I haven't thrown a single punch in my life aside from family brawls with my brother when I was little, but never a legitimate fight.

Some wigger tried to fight me at school once. We were on the football feild so I threw sticks at his shins and called him "smelly".
 
fighting is really immature, I will only fight if someone throws a punch at me... until then I will not start anything
 
hahah sorry but all these pics jus tkept getting better and better....but yeah you dont want to get to mad cause if your like me i would be so mad i wouldent know when to stop and next thing you know you killed someone on accident not on purpose and then you goto jail for manslaughter and your life gets fucked over beacuse of some little stupid argument.be glad it dosent happen to you.
 
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