Avoid the "Friend Zone" :

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"Do you want to know how to get out of the friend zone? Don't act like her friend. Don't act like her buddy. Don't have any fear. Don't act like somebody different. Act like yourself. If you're attracted to her, grab her hand. If you want to kiss her, go in for the kiss. If you want to go out with her again, tell her so. Act like you do with all the other women.

Don’t get caught up in the fantasy in your head. You have no idea if she's perfect for you at all. None. That's your fantasy. That's an illusion.

Take her out. Ask her out. Make sure she knows it's a date, not just a hang-out-in-the-park-with-two-dogs-running-around. Step up and be a man because you don't need another friend.

A proper date is what you need to do to stay out of the friend zone. Go in and give her a kiss on the lips so she knows you're dealing with a man. Grab her when you feel like it. Don't be wimpy. Step up to the plate because you need to let her see the real you. If not, then she's never going to know what a great guy you are and then you're going to be stuck in the friend zone and you're going to see her walking down the street with another guy and you're going to realize you blew it with a great girl.

So how do you escape the friend zone? Don’t be her friend in the first place."

Read more: http://www.askmen.com/dating/curtsmith_600/675b_the-friend-zone.html#ixzz1nLPPmGAV

 
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friend zone and prospect zone. they're two ladders that stand side by side. once you're up one of them, you cannot cross over to the other without descending one and scaling the other. if you get into the friend zone, all you can do is slowly break the friendship and hope that when you rebuild, it's as a prospect. because once you are seen as either a prospect or a friend in a woman's eyes, that will not change.

and, you need to realize up front if a girl is worth dating or if she's only going to be a friend, because you can't have both. if you want to date her, make a move. if she doesn't like you, peace the fuck out. don't settle for friendship just because that's all you can get. it's better to try for the relationship and end up with nothing than settle for friendship hoping that you will progress into something else one day, because you will be hoping forever. don't do that to yourself. never ever ever ever settle to be a girl's friend when you are interested in dating. remember that.

 
my fiance stuck it out in the friend zone for six years before I finally came to my senses. Now there's dedication.
 
haha, half of the six years included benefits so it wasn't that bad for him, there was consistent progression.
 
But of course I was not the first to enter the horrid friend zone, but I have been there for about 5~6 years so I feel knowledgable in the field, and as far as Mario Brothers, I have beaten Super Mario Bros Original for the game boy at least 15~16 times, so I feel somewhat knowledgable in that field as well.

Also, Mister PBR has been assisting me greatly thus far today so I felt highly philosophical whilst writing this.
 
I write the ladies poetry like...

roses are red,

my balls are blue,

let me blow my load all over you.

I am still single... :(
 
i am working with a girl right now. but i feel like im being to much like "a friend" or im being desperate and constantly trying to talk to her

 
ah yes, that moment where you drop everything and and contemplate, "should I text her", yes I should, I get to talk to her! and I'll seem nice and thoughtful!" Then the second you send the text "FUCK! I'm so stupid, she probably thinks I'm needy and naggy, she probably won't even respond cause she doesn't want to have to deal with me!"

I've had this happen too many times, but then there is the classic shallow texting some random bitch "you, me, tonight, fuck" but I mean, lets be honest, a solid (and enjoyable) relationship with a beautiful woman can't be beat
 
ah yes, that moment where you drop everything and and contemplate, "should I text her", yes I should, I get to talk to her! and I'll seem nice and thoughtful!" Then the second you send the text "FUCK! I'm so stupid, she probably thinks I'm needy and naggy, she probably won't even respond cause she doesn't want to have to deal with me!"

I've had this happen too many times, but then there is the classic shallow texting some random bitch "you, me, tonight, fuck" but I mean, lets be honest, a solid (and enjoyable) relationship with a beautiful woman can't be beat
 
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