Asking her out

do the opposite of this. if you ask her out first and she turns out to be a bad kisser, you're screwed. always test the waters before you jump in.
 
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you need to confident and manly without being a dick. "what are you doing on friday night?" "umm...nothing" "cool, meet me at (insert location here) at 7, it'd be good to go out for the night". make sure you have plans. eg. saying something like "i dont know, what do you want to do?" doesn't make you look manly. subconsciously women like more than confidence. they like leadership. it goes back to prehistoric times where the leader of a tribe/group/community would get the most food from the hunt. his wife would therefore get more than any other wife and therefore be healthier. that's got nothing to do with what the two of you eat, but rather, how you eat. you want to make her feel like you have control of the situation and that you could do it with any girl. think afterbang with more tact.
ive posted this sort of stuff before but once you're out you cant spend the night talking about yourself. if she asks you a question answer it honestly and succinctly then immediately say something like "yeah but skiing isnt that interesting....tell me something about you". then keep asking about that one thing as though you're genuinely interested. it helps even more if you are interested, but the key thing to remember is that women love to talk about themselves. the only thing they love more than that is being specifically asked to talk about themselves. eases feelings of self consciousness, makes her happy and ultimately gets you laid. similar sort of thing happens if the two of you find yourselves with nothing to talk about. dont let it happen. jump in confidently and say something like "tell me something about you that i don't know". that works on a few levels. it lets her talk (see above). it also seems as though you're asking something personal, although if you look carefully you'll notice you've done no such thing. if she accuses you of asking something too personal point that out. "haha i didn't ask for something too intimate...it could be anything...the name of your 2nd grade teacher, i dont really mind".
the reason for all this is pretty simple...use this sort of confidence to ask her out, then use it further to make her want to see you again. at the end of the night tell her she's interesting and you'd like to catch up again. if she says how's tuesday say no, you're busy but wednesday would work etc. gives her the impression that you don't "need" her, but that you're happy to take time out of your otherwise awesome life because she's nice. you want to give her the impression that your life is good enough without her. you dont need her to be happy, but it would be a nice compliment to everything else. good luck
 
Tell her you want to take her on a romantic dinner and she has to pay. They always love that. be assertive, remember you have the balls. And you wear the pants in the relationship
 
ask her on thursday when your shadow is appearing north north east from in relation to the position of your body.

christ man...
 
terrible idea. unless you have superhuman patience and so does she, the only thing you will get out of teachering her to ski is a waste of your time and her being really pissed off. only teach girls you dont wanna eventually be with to ski
 
ask her if she wants to kick it? shit it's not really that difficult your mind makes it more crazy than it actually is
 
so youre just asking her out on a date?! Isnt this the easy part? especially if youve known her for a month and you guys have obviously been chillin, just ask her to come along with you with whatever you are doing? highly doubt shell say no and theres really no reason to complicate things
 
tell her "we should def chill soon.." then plan to hangout at ____ date...go to the movies or do whatever..then at the end if all goes well..be like "insert name here, i really like you....shell probs say same thing back..then say would you be my girlfriend. end of story
BAM! works 100 percent of the time 60 percent of the time
 
tell her you took an upskirt pic one day and she has to meet you downtown at a certain date and time if she wants to have it erased.
when she meets you at the location, BAM, you can bust out the 'just kidding! but since we're out how bout a bite to eat?'
 
bro, just text her, ask if you wanna hang out or somethin, nothing official, then when its right, just be like "ik it hasnt been a while, but i realllllly like you like realllllly like you, sooo, would you be my girlfirend?"

if anyone has any hate your gay, and it worked for me after 3 weeks of knowing the girl and were still together 8 mnthes later. claim.
 
dont over complicate this shit, its not like you have to be with her the rest of your life. Just be like hey you want to go out with me. And if she skis see if you can get a bj on the gondi and if she says no see if you can get one from the known in the enchanted forest. Shane would be proud
 
clearly based on the fact that you are still posting in the second page, you are kinda scared to ask her out. if you really wanna put if off a little longer, do a study date first. Ask if she wants to study for some test in some class that you have together (pending the existence of such a class, of course). Its how I ended up fingerblasting some nerdy-cute type in the physics lounge /claim. But seriously, if you can keep it cool and look smart for an extended time where you are actually talking to eachother (unlike a movie), you are in, plus you can get reads off of her, seeing if she is into you or just one of those friend-types. If at any time you get the vibe that she thinks you might be gay, or she starts talking about guys to you, you are only mere inches from being permanently friend-zoned, make physical contact asap and up the flirtyness.

Or you could just ask her out.
 
You could do what most people are suggesting and just ask her out. What has worked best with me was just asking if they wanted to grab lunch (or food after school/work) at a nice-ish restaurant (AKA NOT McDonalds) I went with a nice deli that has really good sandwiches. That way it doesn't seem like your pouring your wallet to her, but it also shows that you are willing to treat her to something nice.

Ask her face to face, it shows your confidence, but you also get a chance to see her reaction in real time. If you are far to nervous to ask her face to face then start the conversation by texting (DO NOT ask her out by text) and then meet her somewhere and ask then.

something like this:

you[text] Hey, do you have any plans after school?

her[text] No, why?

you[text] Me neither, wanna do something?

her[text] sure, what are you thinking?

At this point meet her face to face

you: Hey, I was just wondering if you wanted to go out for some food after school?

her: OH YES! where where you thinking?

you: i know a great [insert your chosen location]

her: okay, sounds good!

you: alright! see you later, text me!

her: okay, bye!

you: HOLLAAAAAA A CHA BOIIII! (i wouldn't recommend saying this, but in your head i am sure you will)

...And that my friend, is a grade A guide to making that lady friend a girlfriend!

Good luck. But by now, you dont need luck, you need to find your confidence.
 
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definatly, a big plus for me is seeing a guy look like he actually might have put some thought into his outfit, atleast not the same thing errday
 
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