Well it depends on what size/weight you are aswell, but the softest out of those 3 would probably be the Afterbangs,....Ar7 (s) are incredibly light and a little bit on the stiffer side (depends on how much you weigh). I cant give you much info on the Moments, i've just heard they are a lil bit on the stiff side aswell, and light. Also check out the Salomon 2012's, they sound perfect for your preference. I've tried them out, super buttery (rocker helps)...and will still hold up moderately on smaller jumps. IDK how durability is in the long run. Armadas will definitely hold up though, have 100+ days on mine. Cheers mangg.