Am i wierdin out?

1337chronic

1337chronic

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well my fellow NSers i need all of ur help on this one.

theres this girl...of course i like her. And well I at least know that she used 2 like me, but latley i dont really think she really cares for me n e more and its been hard for me to talk to her because i dont wanna be annoying or anything but i just wanna tell her how I feel n shit...im stressin out.

so tell me wut u guyz think i should try...
 
Just be strait up with her and tell her whats going on and then just let it sit for awhile and chill about it, like don't push the subject. I really respect guys who are mature enough to do that.
 
thats hard to do. it is really hard to work up the courage in the first place, then to just let it sit and be like, ill tell you tomoro. its like shit make up your mind
 
Yeah, but if you keep pushing it then it will just be annoying and she won't give you the time of day. Once she knows how you feel, then you have to let her take the next step. I would give any guy a chance if he was able to swallow his pride and tell me he liked me. Well except for the fact that I have a boyfriend, but if I didn't, I would give the guy a chance.
 
how long have you knowen her? if she liked you and you never made a move for a long time she probably just thinks that either you never will, or that you dont like her in that way.
 
Take it easy, just be like want do something this weekend, and if things lead on, then she likes you.
 
I'd listen to BeckyK's advice. Seeing as she's a girl, she'd probably know some stuff about girls....just a thought.
 
thats ture, but relationships are weird. i mean just because we are guys does not mean we would know what other guys are thinking about others. same goes with girls.
 
If this girl is nice at all, she will sit and listen to you pour your heart out without laughing. And she'll either tell you she wants you too, or pull the just friends thing. And if shes a bitch to you about it then youre better off without her.
 
i dont even know why he started this thread... he should of just messaged you and saved everyone else the trouble of responding
 
Hahaha. That is soo cool. But please, don't generalize all girls together. Its not fair to the few who care about boys feelings. Like me!
 
how much more fucking straight forward is this? why aree you coming to a bunch of people on an internet site? why is your situation even a question? what do you think you should do? it cant be anymore straight forward, fuck.

its like ur asking us if you should just stay home and be a pussy/loner for the rest of your life OR just go confront her about your problems.
 
i dont know you or her so advice is hard, but one thing i have learned:

you gotta play the game man, everyone wants what they cant have. you cant come across as too easy, not matter how much she likes you. but show interest. you give some more info and maybe i can give you some real advice.

ive been through enough girl shit that i wanna pass some of these hard earned lessons on anyone who will listen haha.
 
its like, i know she likes me...but i think i am playin it 2 easy. also if this helps any someone told me that she hooked up w/ this kid i know from another highschool...and it bothered me. a lot actually...
 
if you know that she likes you then give her some attention and then chill for a couple days (that is the hard part if you really like her- but you CANNOT seem desperate and calling all the time does that), then repeat. eventually if all goes well then she will be clearly more and more into you and you can take it further. if nothing happens for a while, like a month, then turn up the heat and make a serious move. no sense in playing games forever.
 
maybe she just feels that you are one of her best friends, because she always hangs out with you as like "one of the guys" And maybe she did like you, but you guys started having such a good friendship that she realized she didn't want a different kind of relationship. And because neither of you EVER said you liked each other, she never knew if you liked her before so she figured to just keep things how they were and you guys still hang out as friends all the time. So you never told her you liked her, and so your relationship never really escalated as more than friends. And now she's so used to you being her best friend. And while this was going on maybe this guy and her started hanging out, and talking all the time. And she kind of likes this other guy, and shes been liking him for basically a month and they kissed this weekend. So she didn't mean to hurt your feelings because she never knew any of this, but you know that she would do anything for you like jump start your car in th emiddle of the desert and shell always be there for you i guarantee ... take it from a girls opinion
 
maybe you guys could just keep what you have since ur gonna be chilln all year anyway, and realize she thinks really highly of you ... and have some fun get totally faded together like old times
 
no it won't kam ... just don't make it hard, don't worry about it, you have too much on ur plate now anyway im there for you always
 
dude i say that you go for it when you feel like the time is right.

you never know until you try. besides, you will always wonder "what if". if she doesnt think of you that way all the better, you can move on since you actually know. it's the not knowing that kills the most i think.

you gotta live life with no regrets.
 
im pretty sure that i never got the chance to tell her how i felt...I asked her to dinner a couple of times, but it never happend. and its also weird that everyone else knew that i liked her but i guess she didnt...
 
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