Am I overly sensitive?

H

hippi3773

Member
Alright so first the backstory. I like this girl she lead me on the dated my bestfriend and fucked me over. They broke up awhile ago i'm not friends with my buddy anymore but me and her talk now. I'm taking her to the dance at my school this up coming weekend and was suprised she said yes. Well tonight we were hanging and she wanted to stop off at the guys house because she's good friends with his parents so we go there. While were there we start to watch a movie. She ditches me and goes and cuddles my former bestfriend who also has another girlfriend now. Am I in the right to be pissed off or not?
 
Wait, so a girl liked you. Then she liked your friend more. They dated. They broke up. You asked her out. She said yes. The two of you went to hang at your former friends house. She cuddled her ex.

Sorry, but you've been friendzoned.

 
I wouldnt say that is overly sensitive. you are getting upset over something that you have no power to control.

In the past i would have gotten pissed off over that situation, but now i just say fuck it because what are you going to do? Get over it and move on. Dont bitch about it and dont think about it. once you learn to do that nothing will bring you down.
 
Definitely not overly sensitive. You should've probably stopped talking to her after she fucked you over, but I know exactly how it feels to give in and keep talking to her especially since you like/liked her. I'll tell you what you should do though. Stop talking to her now. Take her to the dance then ditch that bitch. Judging by what you posted, she isn't trustworthy. If you got into a relationship, she most likely would not be loyal.

Fuck girls like that, man. I feel for you and wish you good luck.
 
We're quality scholars (adjusts monacle)

But yeah, leave her, she isn't worth it.. Maybe try to become friends with your former best friend again though?
 
your definetly oversensitive, what your gonna wanna do is plant terrorist contraband in your friends house and then let that girl find it so she thinks your friend is a terrorist then she wont like him and shell go back to you then what your gonna do is marry her then pee in her butt.
 
Yeah well I was at his house when I found out he was dating her. I bag tagged him, punched him in the face and walked out that's why i'm not mad at him. I already did something to him
 
Just going to be honest with you here, bud.

Here's the thing, she didn't fuck you over by dating your friend. Secondly, why would you ask a girl to a dance after she has already done something that caused you to lose respect/trust for her? The fact that she indirectly rejected you initially says it all, she's clearly just not that into you romantically. The fact that you continue(d) to make yourself available to her pretty much totally tipped the balance and dynamic of the relationship into her hands. Young girls LOVE to be valued, pursued, and chased. Teenaged girls are incredibly insecure, fickle, and in some cases manipulative. You are fulfilling an ego driven need for her right now.

Didn't you take it as a huge red flag that you two were hanging out and she wanted to go hang with her ex bf's parents?! That's a pretty clear sign, dude. Think about it....if she really just wanted to spend time with the parents, why wouldn't she do that at a time where she wasn't with you? She would've just made a lunch date, or swung by when the ex wasn't there. It makes no sense that she suggested to go there, let alone bring you! Holy shit that must've been crazy awkward.

I understand that you're young and a bit naive, but when a girl you're into and hanging out with invents reasons to visit her ex bf and his family, she's not over it. At all. Say this out loud: She wanted to hang out with his parents, the best way for her to do that is for us to watch a movie and cuddle with her ex.

Another thing, asking a girl to a dance and her accepting really doesn't mean anything. Not trying to be harsh, but it's reality. I feel like you read into her accepting the invitation more than was actually there.

As it's been said, you shouldn't be pissed at all, you should evaluate your actions and take steps to not end up where you're at again. Frankly, I'd go to the dance and seriously pull back from her immediately afterwards, unless you want to go through this same exact cycle, this time with another one of your friends playing the part of her current ex.

Good luck to you, I'm sorry this happened but we've all been there man. Question, are you and the guy not friend's because of this girl?
 
Fuck all that dude, she's using the shit out of you. FUCK THAT dude, be outta there. Cut that bitch off. She's definitely shady as fuck and not the type of woman that you should be pursuing.
 
OP, her pussy probably smells like a discount fish market in the middle of the desert. Don't sweat it.
 
Fuck him dude. If he was actually your friend, he probably would've known/felt you had a thing for this chick, but he decided to hit it anyway. Sounds like he's a prick to me.
 
Plato really said that?

But seriously take her to the dance, leave her, and never talk to her again. In 10 years she'll prolly be some broke ass nasty whore and shell be so ugly you will be friendlisting her. Happens to 95 percent of girls. They're hot in hs but after college, beer, and aging they get ugly as fuck. Only about 1 in 20 girls remains hot into adulthood. So play the percentages and when she's 26 and asks you out on Facebook tell her you don't date stank ass ugly whores. The revenge will be sweet
 
Confront this bitch about it. Tell her to stop doing that shit. If she says no. Walk away. If she says yes, well I think you know what that means
 
Think about that, brother. This chick has cost you your best friend (even if only temporarily) and has caused you a lot of stress.....and she's not even your girlfriend and it doesn't sound like you're fucking!

It's cliche to say at this point, but she's not going to wake up tomorrow and all of a sudden have an epiphany that she's actually wanted to be with you all along. It'd be nice if shit went like that, but from another guy who's found himself in similar situations, it won't.

Hell, if she does all of a sudden throw it at you, watch the fuck out. I'm not saying don't smash, but don't think she won't play you even worse than she has.
 
if you were capable of that yes but if you ever did fuck her (which wont happen if you havent nutted up by now) you would probably become even more attatched and she would fuck you over; cut off all contact
 
This basically is my situation also in a nutshell. We all need to rant once in awhile to make ourselves feel better so don't worry about it!
 
This bitch is using you to get back with him/ at him. Don't be fooled. Get the fuck out there real quick, let them live their own confusing lives and find a real girl.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top