You are totally missing the point of the whole thing about appeal. Andy you are generalizing society as a whole.
While we're in a stereotyping mood, have you ever considered this:
Do "emo" kids wear Hollister/Abercrombie? No. They wear clothes from their bands and girl pants.
Do "goths" wear Hollister/Abercrombie? No. They ALL wear big baggy black clothes and chains.
Do "ghetto" kids wear Hollister/Abercrombie? No. They ALL wear Fubu, South Pole, Sean Jean etc.
Do "skaters" wear hollister/abercrombie? No. They wear their independent truck company t-shirts, dickies, and Vans.
Why don't you take a drive to the hood, and jump on the backs of every black dude you see wearing an XXXL Jersey and his pants around his knees. Or maybe you'd like to take a walk in to the mall and yell at that group of goths walking around all wearing those pants wear you can't see their shoes and the ribbons hanging off them.
The way society is structured today, it is segmented into many different groups that have specific preferences. So naturally, girls are attracted to men with similar preferences.
Do you think these girls
are going to want to date this guy?
Now I'm going completely by odds here. Yes there is a possibility that they may like him (which is totally fine), but in all of my experiences in high school and college. Girls are attracted to guys that are similar to them.
I like blondes with nice little asses like this
Obviously I wouldn't orient my wardrobe like this to attract her.
I last semester I took a course called Modern Society. I wrote an 10 page paper specifically on this topic. You're barking up the wrong tree.