Advice on girl?

So theres this slutty girl and to me she doesnt seem that slutty but i cant tell or not...but lots of people hate her because of that...and i cant tell what rumors are true or not. And she really likes me and i like her a lot too but im not sure if she just wants to fuck me and then go away or if she wants an actual relationship....whats your opinions on this and what not?

sorry that i had to do this to ya guys but im just stuck and dont know what to do
 
^ thanks guys....shes super hot and is really nice to me...and i guess ill take that advice and just not care what other people think. I just dont know how to ask her if she wants a relationship or just wants to fuck and thats it
 
Yeah, you just kind of have to fuck what your friends say and do what you want. If you like this girl go for it. However, go into it carefully, don't get too attached to soon because if what all the other people say is true you could get your feelings hurt. Also, wear a rubber.
 
Honestly, I do not see any problem in this situation. Who cares if she does? I mean you are how old? 16? 15? This should be a dream come true for you.
 
^haha yeah im 16 so i guess its pretty good....but i have a problem getting attactched to girls pretty quickly.

and im not sure if shes got STDs or what not....and i feel like a dick asking her if shes got them
 
yeah i had a girl like this last year but i didnt like her but then she starteed stalking me and that seeled the deal. no go
 
In that case, I know this sounds nuts and everything... But keep going after her but don't put out. Then you can see what she really is interested in.
 
what do you mean like go for her but dont put out....just keep thinking its all cool and then when she wants to fuck just be like....negative? then i might get shot....but then that would prove shes a big slut and is only lookin for some.
 
best advice so far. who gives a shit what your friends think. if you want to go for it. if you dont then dont
 
buddy your young, stay away from relationships for as long as you can, at your age relationships are bullshit anyway, go out and have fun, het with as many chicks you can without your dick falling off, save the relationships for when your 20+
 
^yeah its all good if she puts out too but i have no clue if she has STDs....and i dont know how to ask her if she does or find out
 
yeah i almost got caught up in things with this skank from my school, so many people told me not too. i was so close to going for it, but ducked out, one of the best decisions of my life. she tried to blame my breaking it off on my religion, really messed up stuff, i still get the creeps walking by her in school.

heh hope that might help?
 
all you gotta say, if and when she wants you to bone her, is "i get all my girlfriends tested for std's, so let's go to the clinic." see how she reacts to that.
 
you could always ask her if she wants to go out with you. then if you fuck the first day that may be a sign she just wants to fuck you, and as long as she has no STDs its not a bad thing. or you could just ask her if she wants a relationship.
 
boo freakin who, if other people don't like it tell them that they're not getting std ridden bj's every break during classes
 
if she does like you dont fuck her untill you get comfortable around her enough to ask, if there is such a thing as comfortably asking if someone has the clap or some shit
 
my friend kinda went through this...didn't know what rumors to believe and ingore. he gave her the benefit of the doubt and they had an excellent 1 year relationship where they ended up hating each in the end
 
well thanks guys for all the advice...some good...some funny as shit

...but ive decided to go and ask her out cuz she told me that she actually did want a relationship...so im gonna go for it and hope its alright...then i guess i'll deal with the STD's when i get to that part
 
wait, at first you say she IS a slut, then u say that u don't KNOW if she's a slut? then u say ur not sure if the slut rumors about her are true? awwwwwkward
 
Have sex with her, straight off the bat. Then if she still wants to fuck you, stay with her. Then if she wants a relationship, go out with her. 3 easy steps.
 
just go with teh flow man, stop thinking about it, your probably like 12 anyway, you have your whole life ahead of you.
 
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