I'm gonna go ahead and dedicate my 2000th post to this thread because it's important to me and you both, and we will both be getting ours fixed the same time.
I tore mine once already, last January, got it fixed, and recovered, only to re-tear it 7 months later. I wasn't being an idiot or anything, we think the doctor picked the wrong type of surgery to do. So, I'm waiting now, and will get mine re-fixed sometime in the beginning of June.
As for the pain, it's really not bad. I still have tons of gnarly drugs left over because I only ended up using them for the first few days. It IS incredibly frustrating not being able to do the things you love, not even being able to walk for the first couple weeks. I'm not gonna lie, I got pretty depressed in those first few days, but make it through to your first session of physical therapy, and you'll feel infinitely better!
Here are a couple pictures of my knee post-reconstruction-failure:
Here you can see the difference between my two knees:
And here you can see the specific anchors and ACL tunnels:
Feel free to hit me with any more question you have.