A question of Morals...

1080ski

1080ski

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first off this is a tough decision for me.

here it is. I used to smoke quite a bit (only weed, never touched a cig in my life). i would blaze everyday when i could and all that fun stuff, but i still kept my grades up and excelled in sports. This fall my parents found all of my shit so i decided to take a break. it was hard at first (i would go maybe 2 weeks without it, then smoke for 2, then go 3 weeks without it, ect...). i eventually gave up and started smoking daily again for a little while. Near the end of the skiing season (which is early as far as the east cost is concerned) i stopped for a few weeks because my town was dry. i started smokinng for the last week of skiing, and then spring sports started. i made a final decision that i wasnt going to smoke untill the end of sports. about half way through the thought of quitting compleatly entered my mind, and ive stuck with that untill today. Last night kinda changed my mind (maybe, still not sure yet).

Me and a good friend were driving around waiting for his paretns to leave so we could drink there. Now ive always wanted to smoke with this kid, but he was against it so i didnt push him into doing it (just because thats pretty gay to do). recently he found out his little brother smoked, and for some reason, he is more open to smoking now. Anyways, this kid whose parents were supposed to leave ended up leaving really late, so me and my friend (the one i was driving around with) were just parked in our town center talking and waiting for the parents to peace otu. he brought up smoking and it seems like he is open to it now (example, when i asked if he would smoke with his brother, he said maybe, and he also told me we should just get baked because partys arounnd here suck).

so the question is, should i smoke with this kid or not? ive always wanted to (he is the perfect person to smoke with IMO), but now that i quit (maybe...), im not sure if i should. If i smoked with him, i probably would smoke occasionally with him but try to not do it with my other friends who smoke alot (just so i dont get back into smoking daily). anyways, who has any advice for me? To make it clear, smoking never got in the way of school or sports for me.
 
forgot to add, its 10 weeks since i stopped, and i would only do this after spring sports are done (which is either in 2 or 4 weeks, dependinng on if my boat (im a rower) makes it to nationals or not)
 
how is that a question of morals?

it is only a question of morals bc society has made it that way.......whatever we all know the facts and hey! weed isnt that bad for you....if you drink without regret why question yourself about smoking?

get blunted, duh.
 
its a question of morals because my morals are being questioned right now (if that makes sense). anyways its not important.
 
well since you asked I would say don't smoke anymore. You made it a full ten weeks and if u go smoke with him than you'll just go back to you habit of everyday smoking and it will progress. You have a chance now to stop smoking, take it.
 
lol is it just me or did this kind of sound like a thread that you'd find in the ladies man cult? almost like he's trying to get with this guy he wants to smoke with...

 
^haha extreme.

well I'd say smoking HAS got in yuor way of sports more than you think, you'd be in a lot better shape if you didn't.

this kinda comes down to if you think you need to quit or not, so it's really your decision.

if you told your bud you quit he would probably be turned off it anyway
 
haha, definatly not, but i see what you mean. its just a really cool kid that ive always wanted to smoke with. no gay lovin here!!
 
well im not saying you're down the gay lovin but the way it was written if you were to replace your friend with a chick and replace blazing with sex and/or dating it would work
 
haha i completely understand where ur coming from. i quit after spring break and now summer is coming and im trying to decide whether to start again. im gonna smoke again but only when its worth it. im not gonna turn into a burnout this summer like i used to be, im just gonna smoke with my buds at my house and when im chillin around and stuff
 
first off this is a tough decision for me.

here it is. I used to jerk off quite a bit (only myself, never touched another dudes schlong in my life). i would jerk it everyday when i could and all that fun stuff, but i still kept my grades up and excelled in sports. This fall my parents found all of my shit so i decided to take a break. it was hard at first (i would go maybe 2 weeks without it, then jerk it hardcore for 2, then go 3 weeks without it, ect...). i eventually gave up and started jerking daily again for a little while. Near the end of the skiing season (which is early as far as the east cost is concerned) i stopped for a few weeks because my town was dry. i started noticing my friend tyler for the last week of skiing, and then spring sports started. i made a final decision that i wasnt going to make my move untill the end of sports. about half way through the thought of quitting compleatly entered my mind, and ive stuck with that untill today. Last night kinda changed my mind (maybe, still not sure yet).

Me and a good friend were driving around waiting for his paretns to leave so we could fuck there. Now ive always wanted to fool around with this kid, but he was against it so i didnt push him into doing it (just because thats pretty gay to do). recently he found out his little brother was gay, and for some reason, he is more open to homosexuality now. Anyways, this kid whose parents were supposed to leave ended up leaving really late, so me and my friend (the one i want) were just parked in our town center talking and waiting for the parents to peace otu. he brought up anal and it seems like he is open to it now (example, when i asked if he would have anal with his brother, he said maybe, and he also told me we should just have raunchy buttsecks because partys arounnd here suck).

so the question is, should i felate with this kid or not? ive always wanted to (he is the perfect person to bang with IMO), but now that i quit (maybe...), im not sure if i should. If i had buttsecks with him, i probably would want buttsecks only occasionally with him but try to not do it with my other friends who have gay sex alot (just so i dont get back into jerking off to gay porn daily). anyways, who has any advice for me? To make it clear, being gay has never got in the way of school or sports for me.
 
haha, well...all i have to say is that i quit smoking for about a year once and i am truly happy whether i am currently smoking or not. i think i am happiest now, i dont smoke everyday but i do when someone offers to smoke me up...so my advice is...go for it when its free...but dont waste all your money on smoking.
 
yo i got caught like in the fall by my parents they found my bowl and like an eigth and mad lighters so i quit becasue they threatened me with drug test adn i havent smoked ececpet a few times since and its mad better not haveing to worry about anyhthing like gettin caught or watever so if uve lasted 10 weeks dont do it
 
I'd say stay away from it, you're trying to quit, and he's uncomfortable about it, just go do something else, find some hot chicks or something...
 
I was in the same situation literally a week ago. Like for real, the exact same thing, with that one kid who would be perfect to smoke with. Do it, because they are just morals, it doesn't make you less of a person. That's what I realized and it's working out.
 
is this a joke? if you inserted meth/coke/heroin rather than weed i would have taken you more seriously, but this is weed we're talking about. get cereal.
 
ide say no, you no it wont stay just an acaisional thing you will do it everywere their is a party or somthing. besides sober is best man!
 
i would say the best way to go is to not get high, but its really your decision b/c the only reason your not smoking is for yourself... correct?
 
i guess you should do it if you feel it is what you want to do and it doesn't conflict with your life. it sounds like you might have a small mental addiction going on so you need to be able to control that because it will mess up your life if you get too addicted.
 
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