i think u need to chill out man...no matter what u do, someone will think its gay...fuck em'...PERSONALLY...i think 1 foot grinds are dope, and dont overly like the whole no-poles buissness, but thast just me...why am i dumb becasue of that??? i just dont like the feeling of it  becasue i have tried it before, and it looks to simple to me...but again, that is only my opinion, so just chill out man and do and think what U want, regardless of what other people think.