you, dickwad, are a fucking idiot.
Of course it's not your damn fault that people hurt. It doesn't stop them from feeling a pain that you've obviously never experienced.
Have you ever known someone who has committed suicide? Have you seen the pain in their parents, their friends, their teachers or anyone they've ever known? Has anyone you cared about ever suffered with an addiction? Or emotions that they can't handle? If not, you're lucky. But learn some empathy. These feeling are real and they are impossible to deal with alone.
One day, I hope, you'll understand what I'm talking about. But I do hope that you'll never have to experience it.
And sometimes, the bottom is so far down that there is no light, and there really is no way someone can see a way out. Anything that tries to provide the hope that one day they'll see a different way is worth a shot.