if we could just tell our parents that we smoke/drink. i just wanna say 'mom i smoke weed! dont worry im safe i know what im doing k so dont yell' and have her be like 'thats okay son just be careful'
maybe im just fortunate to have a cool set of parnts bt my mom and dad dont care if i drink, as long as im not driving and are being somewhat responsible for the given situation they are fine with it.
one time when i was on shrooms it was like 2 in the morning and i was just chillin in my room and my rents were asleep down the hall....for some reason, i thought that waking my rents up and telling them that im tripping would be the most epic thing to do, and that i should give them some shrooms too....but thank god, i passed out right at the door before i got into their room....it would be so sick if they didnt care what i did, and i couldnt get in trouble
I kinda just hit that point, told my mom that since im 18 now, she aint gonna stop me, and that no matter what im doing im gonna be safe about it, like, im not gonna drive when im baked out of my mind or drunk at all and shes just accepted the fact.
My parents never knew I smoked but it doesnt matter since I stopped.
They were the first ones who had me drinking though. I must've been 14 when they got me loaded off of wine on new years. I woke up and never wanted to drink again. I guess they figured if i was going to learn about drinking they'd be there to make sure they were the teachers which I appreciate because nowadays I drink responsibly and they're completely cool with it.
I plan to do the same way down the line with my kids.
haha is drinking and smoking the same as raping and cutting?
obviously you've never drank or smoked. but let me tell you, you should really give up the cutting and raping and just have a beer or smoke a joint or something man. it a lot safer. and better when it comes to legality.
the second part. "yeah honey i fucked your sister" "oh yeah that WAS me that killed your brother", pretty sure honesty can still be bad no matter who too
yeah man i agree. i was raised mormon. it was fucking so hard to have to hide everything from my rents. basically for THEIR own good. they would've been devastated. i got caught drinking a lot tho. but yeah man. honesty is the way to go. but it's nice to not have to worry about it anymore. tough it out you'll be on your own soon enough my friend
I plan on having a long conversation with my mom about the things I've done and still do before I go to college.She already knows that I drink on occasions. but I don't know if I plan on telling her everything but mainly I would like her to know that I smoke and dont' plan on stopping. Hopefully she'll see that I've made a very methodical decision in smoking marijuana and that I do it in a responsible way. I just feel that in order for us to truly have a good relationship she needs to know more than she does now.
But it's not like I'm going to tell her how hammered I was the night before and how great the sex with my girlfriend was. That'd be creepy.