Skis are a really personal thing.... I would honestly be pretty upset if someone bought me skis. Even growing up if I got skis for a birthday or something, it was a card "redeemable" for skis so I could pick out what I wanted. And my dad was one of my coaches, so even though he usually had a pretty good idea, I still had the flexibility. That said I ski all men's skis, unless they are truly unisex and I find the women's skis prettier. But only a few companies have exactly the same construction. But it really depends on the skier- I come from a racing background and have gotten over 140 days on snow every year since I was probably 10. My mom skis once every 5 years. She is on a women's specific ski.