You don't need a women's ski! A lot of them are really soft. I recommend riding skis like the Atomic Punx, I've heard that they are great. It just so happens that I am 4' 11", so I basically have to ride skis in the 145 to 150 range. Most women skis fall under this range, so I ride the Volkl Pearls from 2012. I love these skis, and they are super light! However, if I didn't get such a sick deal of those skis, I would have purchased the Ledge or Wall, other Volkl skis. Try to consider the men's options, and hopefully you you find a great pair of skis soon!