What's worse?

[MilaKunis]

A man who has consensual sex with someone who is 12 or under a man who rapes a women who is 21 or older. My fried asked me this question and I genuinely could not answer it.

 

[annajeans]

Both are equally fucked up.

 

[introvert]

.

wtf is this shit

 

[midwestpowhunter]

A 12 year old boy or girl

 

[clive_bixby]

Win

 

[Stickity]

let's all remove our genitalia, then we won't have to worry about it.

 

[VT_FLO]

Rape is worse. Rape changes the victim. It affects them for the rest of their life negatively and gives every victim slightly different issues. At least consensual sex isn't going to scar the person forever.

 

[ejm]

rape is worse for sure, but even if the 12 year old wants it, thats still a pretty fucked up thing to do.

 

[edai]

Consensual sex at the age of 12 and under....

I can almost guarantee you it will having just as bad if not worse effects. I think virginity is also a huge factor in this....definitely not a conversation to be had on NS though.

 

[Spinoza]

Consensual with a 12yo is worse.

It's being done to a more impressionable victim. It will change them because it is happening at such a young age when they are still developing. The kid thinks its consensual but they don't really know.

And although an adult rape victim may be susceptible to permanent damage, they are at least rational and can get over it.

 

[tds103]

why would you propose this question? Can you not make a decision and need advice?

 

[JWeinstock]

definitely rape but this a fucked up question

 

[iSmokeweed]

Obviously the little boy. No scarring left behind. At least no mental scarring.

 

[Shifties4Dayz]

old enough to pee, old enough for me

 

[miroz]

Bull shit.

This is a fucked up question. I can't answer this.

 

[lbuitendam]

didn't know fried could talk

 

[El_Barto.]

what the sandusky did i just read?

 

[accualyisdolan]

14 is legal in alot of European countries

 

[3-6-steeze]

A couple hundred years ago, kids were getting married in their early teens. But rape's crazy shit

 

[Monsieur_Patate]

Haha, no it's not.

 

[Monsieur_Patate]

Holy shit, my bad. It actually is.

 

[FLBP]

This thread is disturbing.

 

[edai]

Yeah but it's waaaay different because kids in Europe aren't fucking idiots.

 

[Laurent.]

Now you know where to move to to get the taste of a young ripe girl/boy.

 

[jcc03skis]

...ummm

 

[MilaKunis]

Yeah I honestly couldn't answer it either so I wanted to see what you guys thought

 

[cornholio]

is it not 18 in the US? or is that regulated by the state?

 

[Backyard.Skier]

here we go..

 

[FLBP]

Regulated by state, a few states are 16. In Mt a 16 year old can consent to someone within 2 years (16 up to 18, 17 up to 19) then at 18 it's fair game.

 

[.Apex.]

Both. Both are worse

 

[Hammyslapwagon]

picture of said 12 yr old?

 

[tds103]

That's worse

 

[Jane6]

but yeah, I'd still consider having sex with a 12 year old as rape, a 12 year old is in many aspects still a child.

 

[Laurent.]

According to the Amazon's Satere Mawé tribe, people as young as eleven year olds can become adults and eligible for marriage as long as they pass the coming of age ritual (Being stung by multiple bullet ants). Not justifying anything, but just to give an insight in different cultures and their perception on adulthood.

 

[AGOF]

that is the hardest ive laughed at a post in like 2 years, thanks

 

[Jane6]

hahah random example, but yeah everything is relative.

But since I dont have the same cultural values as some isolated tribe in the Amazon I still think banging a 12 year old is weird.