Tacoma sucks. Go to Seattle. It's full of hipsters, but you're less likely to get shot.
During the winter we get shit on in the mountains, but it's often pretty wet. It rarely snows any significant amount in the lowlands.
If you want a solid all around mountain with good terrain and a good park, if neither is super huge, go to Stevens.
If you want to hit rails in the rain, go to Snoqualmie.
If you want to pay a ton to ride shitty rail park with rich assholes and sometimes get to take advantage of the terrain on a pow day, go to Crystal.
Baker is good for longer trips when it snows.
Locals around here are civil if you don't give off too many tourist vibes. Except Baker. Baker locals just hate everyone.