This is a little gay but i dno what to do

ElbridgeGerry

ElbridgeGerry

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So i have this female friend and she's really cool and all and pretty hot..here is where my problem comes in. I like her a fair bit and she just broke up with her boyfriend..i dno how to approach her and not sound like im taking advantage of her.
 
I was in that EXACT same situation last year! I invited her out to dinner then when we were walkin back to the car in the parkin lot i pulled down her pants and peed in her butt
 
you just gotta do tha tricks, lil kids is good at dis shit. you gotta say slip tha roofies in tha drink, its tha only way fo 12 year olds
 
Give her time right now... like a week or something.

depends on how long her and her b/f were dating.

but you have to tell her eventually.
 
haha OH SHIT you're back. wicked haha. (or still here... i dunno i hadn't been on NS for a long time until pretty recently).

NSG just got more interesting.
 
alright i just read the rest of the thread and i guess you were gone for a while Lil G.

awesome thread jack, there's a limited number of NS members who can do it that effectively haha.
 
post it in ladies men if you actually want helpful answers...i dont really know what to say though, maybe just stay pretty close to her and hint that you are open to a relationship or whatever, but dont push anything too soon. give her time.
 
Key was to get in there as they were breaking up. You could have been that "Sweet, nice guy that listens and really cares about her" unlike that jackass of a dude she was with.
You blew it.
That's my secret anyways. Trust me, it works. If you sense a chick is having a boyfriend issues, get in there. Half the time you don't even have to do anything. Listen to her rant, and she's think you're the greatest guy ever.
There may still be a chance for you, though. Seriously, be that comforting, sensitive douchebag that girls think they want. She's vulnerable.
 
Do what he says, just make sure to make your move before too much time has passed as the sensative guy. Wait too long and you risk getting the "Oh but you've been like such a brother to me"

Don't get lumped with the friends. Make sure you make your intentions known.
 
just show her how to get to chad's gap from the bottom of alta,

she'll be yours for sure then.
 
i'm not sure how this is gay... but i see what you mean. you should wait for a little bit, and then start to close in. MAKE SURE NOT TO BECOME HER FRIEND!!! she's vulnerable, and she needs somebody to help her out with her emotional distress. you have to make it clear from the beginning that you don't just want to be friends, but that peeing in her butt is a priority.
welcome back Lil_G
 
well basically man, your in the 'friendzone' as many would call it. This is really hard to get out of because you probably went out with her a bunch of times and she'd tell you shit she wouldnt normally tell other people therefore she trusts you. If you all of a sudden tell her that you like her all of her trust for you will fly out the window because in a way you lied to her. To make things work and for her to be attracted to you, you have to not talk to her for a while (over a month or so) breaking your friendship then just one day go up to her and attract her and then ask her if she wants to go out for drinks or something. i know this because every guy has been there and there is only really one way to get out unless you get lucky somehow and she liked you while she was dating her bf which has happened to me before but is pretty fuckin rare. good luck it is one of the hardest manouevers.
 
you dont want to be a rebound so give her some time. but don't wait too long! u don't wanna miss your chance. i'd say give it a week or two then tell her how u feel but don't be pushy so she doesn't feel rushed into anything. let her take her time.
 
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